Megan Macy, CLC CD

Megan Macy, CLC CD The Milk Lady Lactation Counseling, LLC. Personalized breastfeeding counseling + Doula Services

12/08/2025

Most of my favorite parts of motherhood are the things society told me not to do🤷🏼‍♀️ If I would have followed societal norms and standards I would have missed out on the stuff that means the most to me. After a long day of mothering, sometimes thinking about the moments where my patience worn thin. Nothing feels better than rubbing little backs, playing footsie, pressing my lips to their heads and breathing them in. Praying over them and asking for grace in the moments I was a frustrated mommy. They aren’t babies anymore, I never “transitioned” them. Not saying that’s the wrong choice, but it never felt aligned for me. Bed sharing feels just as right now as it did then. They have their comfy beds for whenever they want to be in them. I’ll welcome the snuggles as long as I can 🥰

12/02/2025

The baby that showed me the way ❤️

11/23/2025
11/22/2025

With all of this talk about formula recalls I wanted to share my top tip for safe formula feeding 😊🍼 If you have worked with me, you know that I am all about working smarter not harder 💁🏼‍♀️ The pitcher method not only makes life easier, but you have peace of mind knowing every bottle baby gets has been sterilized. Many families want and try to exclusively breastfeed, and truly it is the safest option for babies. Not only because of possible bacterial outbreaks and recalls, but also in the event of natural disasters, and government shut downs. This is why health organizations coined the term “breast is best” not to shame families, but for the big picture of ensuring babies are protected when things in the world out of our control go wrong. Sometimes formula is part of our journey, and that’s okay! I love to give my clients confidence in their formula journeys so they feel empowered and informed. Often people will say it’s unrealistic to sterilize every bottle of formula. With the pitcher method it’s completely possible! Pediatricians in the US will often advise to use bottled water and there’s no need to sterilize the formula if you have a full term baby with no underlying health conditions. I deeply believe even healthy babies with strong immune systems should have sterilized formula. In other countries the directions on formula cans are to always sterilize the formula. Babies should always be protected. In car seats, with sleeping, with their milk. Everything!

I remember with my first baby, I struggled with delayed onset lactation and needed to supplement him at 4 days old. I sent my husband to the store at 3am and insisted he get the organic brand. That was all that mattered in my decision making. He brought it home, and in a rush and completely uninformed I did not prepare the formula correctly. Looking back knowing what I know now. I would have asked him to buy pre made liquid formula. Not only because it’s easier and I was in a very bad mental state, but because it’s sterile.

11/07/2025

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Please, PLEASE note that silver cups need to be 100% silver, not *silver plated nickel* These knock off cheaper options ...
10/07/2025

Please, PLEASE note that silver cups need to be 100% silver, not *silver plated nickel* These knock off cheaper options can actually delay healing and even cause further damage/infection. Also don’t stress if you don’t have $60 in the budget for silver nursing cups. I do not consider them a breastfeeding essential. I know social media can make things look like they will make or break your experience. But you will be totally fine without them too👍🏼😊 My favorite remedy for damaged ni***es is a 15min saline soak followed by a breast pad lathered in ni**le butter, wear for 1-2hrs, then allow full air flow for 1-2hrs before repeating with another 15min saline soak, lathered breast pads 1-2hrs, full air flow 1-2hrs etc. etc.

09/12/2025

A golden, light-soaked moment by Ricky Mujica—Mother and Child captures the tender balance of self and motherhood. Loose brushwork, warm tones, and a mirror’s reflection turn a morning ritual into something timeless and intimate. ❤️

So much of what I teach clients is actually un-learning what has been taught around baby feeding and sleep. Main stream ...
08/14/2025

So much of what I teach clients is actually un-learning what has been taught around baby feeding and sleep. Main stream feeding and sleep advice sabotages breastfeeding. Looking at other cultures that have high breastfeeding rates and acknowledging what they do differently, and why it protects breastfeeding. Western feeding and sleep ideals are geared for bottle fed babies, not nursing babies. I always say “Nursing babies and bottle babies are like apples and oranges. Both fruit, but also very different.”

To work 1:1 with me email contact@themilklady.net

Happy World Breastfeeding Week 2025!🥛Xoxo,The Milk Lady
08/05/2025

Happy World Breastfeeding Week 2025!🥛

Xoxo,
The Milk Lady

It’s not my place to assume everyone wants to or has to exclusively breastfeed. Just because that’s the “gold standard” ...
07/31/2025

It’s not my place to assume everyone wants to or has to exclusively breastfeed. Just because that’s the “gold standard” that health organizations recommend. What social media implies. The messaging we receive from every direction. 100% breastmilk. The other messaging we receive is “Fed is best” implying that if you aren’t providing 100% breastmilk to your baby, you have to make the switch to 100% formula.

Black and white.

Sometimes unexpected challenges arise. Supply issues, weight gain concerns. Pressure from providers to get baby on track. Often resulting in triple feeding. Nurse the baby x amount of minutes. Pump x amount of minutes. Offer baby x amount of milk via bottle. Possibly fortify the milk with x amount of formula. Repeat. Triple feeding can be a brief plan in an attempt to get things back on track. But it’s not sustainable.

Often I see mothers feeling cornered. Losing track of their “why”. Going with the motions. Stressed. Sad. Not enjoying nursing because they don’t know how much the baby is getting. Cutting it short to get to pumping. Often, prolonged triple feeding results in a baby that develops bottle preference. Now mom is chained to her pump, baby arching their back and screaming at the breast in protest. The last piece that felt like a glimpse of the vision she had for herself in motherhood. Now she feels the pressure and weight to make the switch to 100% formula in an effort to save her sanity.

There is a crossroad where I ask my clients,
“What is more important to you- the breastmilk itself? Or the act of nursing your baby from your body?”

This question provides clarity. What is her “why”
Wtf are we actually doing? What matters to this family? How can we protect the mental health of this mother, and in turn make breastfeeding in any capacity- sustainable.

Most often mothers express their desire to continue nursing. Sometimes it means releasing the pressure of providing 100% breastmilk, enjoying nursing on demand with a few bottles of formula in between. I remind my clients how mothers in the 70’s, 80’s, 90’s often didn’t have access to pumps at work but still nursed at home. Proud to breastfeed.

There is Nuance. It can be grey.

07/30/2025

🍼 New Milk Depot Now Open at Providence! 🍼

We’re proud to announce the opening of a new breast milk donation center at Providence Sacred Heart Medical Center in partnership with Mothers’ Milk Bank California! 💙 This new milk depot offers a secure and convenient drop-off location for approved milk donors. Every ounce of donated milk helps nourish medically fragile infants—giving them the best possible start in life.

Learn how to become a donor: https://mothersmilk.org/Providence

‼️GIVEAWAY‼️To celebrate the launch of several new Milk Lady products I am doing a giveaway!🥛Now available on www.themil...
07/21/2025

‼️GIVEAWAY‼️

To celebrate the launch of several new Milk Lady products I am doing a giveaway!🥛

Now available on www.themilklady.net

🍯 Colostrum Collecting Kits
(included in Prenatal Breastfeeding Class)

👚 Express Yourself T-Shirts & Onesies
(Adult, Youth, and Onesie sizes)

💌 Express Yourself stickers

GIVEAWAY DETAILS:
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