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09/01/2022

Seasonal Affective Disorder

This fact sheet provides information about seasonal affective disorder (SAD), a type of depression. It includes a description of SAD, signs and symptoms, how SAD is diagnosed, causes, and treatment options.

08/28/2022

The power is in you🌻🌻🌻🌻

08/28/2022

We have all experienced grief and loss and it hurts. Sing praise to the Lord, you saints of His, And give thanks at the remembrance of His holy name. For His anger is but for a moment, His favor is for life; Weeping may endure for a night, But joy comes in the morning. (Psalm 30:4-5).

These insights from a grief expert can help anyone coping with a difficult loss.

08/25/2022

4. Stonewalling:
Withdrawing from the relationship as a way to avoid conflict. Partners may think they are trying to be “neutral” but stonewalling conveys disapproval, icy distance, separation, disconnection, and/or smugness:
Stony silence,
Monosyllabic mutterings,
Changing the subject,
Removing yourself physically,
Silent Treatment

08/25/2022

3. Defensiveness:
Seeing yourself as the victim
warding off a perceived attack:
- Making excuses (e.g., external circumstances beyond your control forced you to act in a certain way)
- Cross-complaining: meeting your partner’s complaint, or criticism with a complaint of your own, ignoring what your partner said
- Disagreeing and then cross-complaining “That’s not true, you’re the one who …” “I did this because you did that…”
- Yes-butting: start off agreeing but end up disagreeing
- Repeating yourself without paying attention to what the other person is saying
- Whining “It’s not fair.”

08/25/2022

2. Contempt:
Attacking your partner’s sense of self with the intention to insult or psychologically
abuse him/her:
- Insults and name-calling: “bastard, wimp, stupid, ugly, slob, lazy…”
- Hostile humor, sarcasm or mockery
- Body language & tone of voice: sneering, rolling your eyes, curling your upper lip

08/25/2022

John Gottman’s FOUR HORSEMEN OF THE APOCALYPSE
1. Criticism:
Attacking your partner’s personality or character, usually with the intent of making
someone right and someone wrong:
Generalizations: “you always…” “you never…”“you’re the type of person who …” “why
are you so …”

08/25/2022

What is your Love Language?

08/25/2022

This brochure presents information on bipolar disorder including symptoms, causes, diagnosis, treatment options, and resources to find help for yourself or others.

08/25/2022

It is important to remember that mental health does not discriminate. One in five adults across all races, ethnicities, and genders will struggle with mental health in their lifetime.