10/17/2025
P/T conference season again! Check out our list of questions to ask below ⬇️
It doesn't seem possible, but it is already time for parent/teacher conferences for many area schools.😱 If you are a parent worried about your child, you are anxiously waiting to ask his/her teacher the most important question to date, "Is my child making progress?" 🤔
And guess what your child's teacher will say? "Yes.”
Teachers are with your child every day, so YES they will see growth and we always want to share as many positives as possible with families. Not to mention, your child inevitably WILL be making some progress.
Why do we NOT recommend JUST asking if they are making progress? We refer to this as the "developmental effect," which means that children by the very nature of growing WILL learn. This unforunately means that there is a tendency to attribute a child's progress to what is really just a child growing and developing, but it has less to do with meaningful progress made through actual instruction.
🗣Here are some questions that we recommend asking that may give you a better idea of growth instead of "Is he making progress?”:
👉🏻"Are they making progress at the same pace as their peers?"
👉🏻"Are you finding they need lots of repetition?"
👉🏻"Are they retaining information or do you have to reteach it a lot?"
👉🏻"Are they avoiding doing any of the work?"
👉🏻"Are they learning in some areas more easily than others?"
👉🏻"Can you tell me about specific skills you see that are still difficult?"
By asking these types of questions, you may feel more confident in understanding whether or not your child is where they need to be.
☑️One last tip. If your child has dyslexia, "Keep practicing reading, it will just click" does not apply to them 😉