Postvention Collective

05/14/2026

Springfield, Missouri August 12 & 13, 2026

04/25/2026

04/07/2026

You don't have to say the perfect thing.

But you do have to say something.

HR professionals and managers tell me all the time: "I froze. I didn't know what to say, so I said nothing." I understand the fear. Su***de loss is heavy, and the last thing you want to do is make it worse.

Here's the truth. Silence feels safer to you. It feels like abandonment to them.

📝 Here's exactly what to do when an employee loses someone to su***de:

✅ Say their person's name. "I'm so sorry about [name]." It matters more than you know.
✅ Acknowledge it directly. You don't have to use the word su***de. "This kind of loss is unlike anything else" is enough.
✅ Give them a soft landing. "Take the time you need. We'll figure out coverage together."
✅ Check in after two weeks. Grief doesn't end at the funeral.

❌ Avoid this common mistake: Returning to business as usual after a few days. Su***de grief is long. Your employee is still in it long after the casseroles stop coming.

Your intentions are good. I know that. But good intentions need a little direction in moments this heavy.

Postvention Collective trains HR teams and managers to respond with confidence, not fear, when su***de loss touches your workplace.

Want a place to start? Drop "TRAINING" in the comments or send me a message. Let's talk about what your team needs. 💜

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02/09/2026

Our 2026 conference, "Connecting a Stronger Chain," brings together professionals, survivors, and community leaders to get aligned on what actually helps after a su***de death because we want support that is skilled, steady, and sustainable.

This is the only nationwide conference specific to postvention (su***de bereavement) for 2026.

Who is it for?

· Behavioral health professionals and agencies
· HR, EAP, and corporate wellness leaders
· School administrators, counselors, and educators
· First responders and crisis response teams
· Military personnel
· Faith leaders and community organizations
· Survivors and advocates who support survivors

What will you leave with?

· Practical postvention frameworks you can apply immediately
· Language and tools for supporting survivors over time (not just the first few days)
· Clear guidance for organizational response and communication
· Connections with other "links" in the chain so you are not doing this alone

Your Registration Includes

· Two full conference days
· Specialized presenters working in the field
· Intermediate training opportunities
· Full breakfast and lunch each day
· Resources/toolkits
· Vendors & Bookstore

Optional add-ons

· Day 1 Dinner
· CE Certificate (for applicable education hours)
· Bundle packages to the Journey Thru Grief, "Surviving Su***de Loss Together" conference immediately following this conference on August 14 & 15, 2026 (and additional Day 1 Dinner)

So yes, technically a postvention mega-week event!

Two conferences, low pricing, important topic!

Begin with the conference page and access tickets from there. The link is in the comments. If you have anything to do with su***de bereavement and support, this is where you need to be this fall!

Https://postventioncollective.com/2026-conference

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11/01/2025

Journey Thru Grief is declaring November as Su***de Loss Survivor Month.

If you've lost someone to su***de, this month is for you. It's a time to honor your person, acknowledge your pain, and know you're not alone in this journey.

Throughout November, I'll be sharing resources, stories, and support specifically for su***de loss survivors. Because your grief matters. Your story matters. And you deserve a space where both are understood.

You're not alone. 💙

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09/09/2025

If you are in SW Missouri, Tracy Oeser is offering an in-person, 2.5 hour training on September 25th about the impact of postvention, the effects of su***de bereavement on Missouri citizens, and the healthy ways to improve healing for those left behind.

The details are available on our website. Register today!

https://postventioncollective.com/motraining

09/02/2025

September is Su***de Prevention Month, but here's what most people miss:

The BEST su***de prevention often comes from those who've already experienced su***de loss.

We call this 'postvention as prevention' and it is revolutionary.

Su***de loss survivors bring:

🎯 Authentic understanding of warning signs
🎯 Real-world knowledge of what helps (and what doesn't)
🎯 Credibility that saves lives
🎯 Passion that can't be taught

This September, let's shift the conversation.

Prevention isn't just about stopping su***de - it's about learning from those who have lived through loss.

Ready to turn your pain into prevention? Let's talk.

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09/01/2025

08/16/2025

As Su***de Prevention Month approaches, I want to share my story of resilience for anyone facing the unimaginable. After losing my daughter to su***de, I dedicated my life to breaking the silence and supporting survivors. Today, I am available to speak publicly—whether at corporations, schools, agencies, or community events—about postvention, hope, and healing after su***de loss.

About me: I am the CEO of Postvention Collective, with nearly 20 years of lived experience, advanced psychology training, and a deeply personal understanding of grief. My mission is to help organizations and individuals navigate su***de loss with compassion and confidence.

If you’re seeking a speaker for your event during Su***de Prevention Month or beyond, let’s connect. My full bio and booking information: postventioncollective.com/hire-me

You are not alone, and there is hope after loss.

07/14/2025

🚨 ATTENTION BEHAVIORAL HEALTH PROFESSIONALS 🚨

Are you avoiding su***de loss survivors because you're afraid you'll say the wrong thing?

You're not alone.

73% of behavioral health professionals admit they feel unprepared to help su***de loss survivors effectively.

The 3 fears that keep you stuck:

❌ "I don't know what to say"
❌ "I might make it worse"
❌ "I'm not qualified enough"

What if I told you these fears are actually your roadmap to becoming the helper survivors desperately need?

In my "3 Ways to Combat Fear of Su***de Loss" training, you'll discover:

✅ The exact words that comfort (not activate) survivors
✅ How to navigate the "danger zones" in conversation
✅ Why your "imperfect" help is exactly what they need

NEW BONUS for 2025: Includes downloadable conversation guides you can reference immediately!

Investment: Just $47 (less than most therapy sessions)

Format: Virtual presentation you can attend from anywhere

Time: Friday, July 18, 2025 10:00 am - 12:00 pm CST

Limited spots available - behavioral health professionals and social workers only at this time.

https://postventioncollective.com/training-schedule

"This training gave me the confidence I was missing. I finally know how to help instead of avoid." - Sarah M., LCSW

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