10/28/2025
“A MIND TO SUFFER”
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After a lifetime of persecution by the Chinese Communist government, Pastor Samuel Lamb died at the age of 88. One of his favorite slogans was: “Persecution is good for the Church.” He made that statement after his imprisonment had driven the membership of his “independent home-church movement” from 200 to 2000. When he died, 30,000 people attended his funeral.
Pastor Lamb also was known to have said: “Have A MIND TO SUFFER, [or] you’ll be broken.” We don’t mean to put lipstick on the “pig” of pain; nor do we want to romanticize it, to use it as a weapon or to teach lessons. (E.g. “Join Jesus on his cross.” “Kill your persecutors with kindness.” “God wants us to suffer, to learn….”)
“A MIND TO SUFFER” is simply a mind that embraces NECESSARY suffering. Yet our controlling minds keep insisting that suffering and pain are not necessary—crazy thinking. It’s like a football coach telling his players: “We will win the Super Bowl. But there will be no broken bones. There will be no concussions, and there will be no pain.” We are not pure spirits; we are animals who must accept the reality of pain.
I admit that my own personal life has been incredibly free of suffering; my pain is nothing, compared to the agony others endure daily. But since my situation could change in a heartbeat, I must prepare A MIND TO SUFFER—everyone has to have a right attitude toward suffering—or “be broken,” when pain comes.
One way to prepare is to regularly reflect on the Sorrowful Mysteries of the rosary. Mentally joining the pain of Jesus prepares us for the painful reality of our human existence. One does not need to be Catholic (or to believe in Jesus) to benefit from the practice of meditation. By spending a couple of brief periods of time each week reflecting on the nature of suffering, anyone can train their controlling mind to surrender.
THE SORROWFUL MYSTERIES OF SURRENDER:
1) (Agony in the Garden) Mental pain stops when we admit that we have no control—“Not my will.”
2) (Scourging at the Pillar) Physical pain can never be completely avoided—even a hangnail hurts.
3) (Crowning with Thorns) People may persecute us, but their judgment does not define our worth and value.
4) (Carrying the Cross) Pain accompanies us throughout our whole lives—pain does not have a pause button.
5) (Death) Controlling minds must surrender to their finality—nothing of our minds will last.
A zillion clever sayings advise us how to take the “lemons” of life and turn them into lemonade. But we’re not interested in fooling our minds, making light of pain or pretending to enjoy suffering. We simply want our conscious minds to embrace the reality that we are not in control. At best, we can only manage suffering. So, go ahead and mourn pain (EVERYBODY’S pain)—it sucks! It’s okay to do everything possible to relieve pain.
Whether our physical and mental suffering is great or small, we accept that all discomforts end with death—the same is true of pleasures. No one carries pleasure or pain beyond the grave. HERE and NOW is our ONLY chance for happiness. By developing A MIND TO SUFFER, we can walk this Earth without letting pain deter us from experiencing all things as discoveries and opportunities for INTIMACY.
The Happy Little Critters Band insists that absolutely nothing is earned or deserved. Everything is part of the ONE ORGANISM (God). Whatever happens to the least one happens to God. So, developing A MIND TO SUFFER eases the pain for all those “persons” (the deceased) who now share the ONE ORGANISM (God Life). Meanwhile, we on Earth are free to fully dedicate our attention and energy to enjoying life, here and now.
© 2025 Rev. John Vogler [HappyLittleCrittersBand.com]