Perfect Love Doula Services

Perfect Love Doula Services "Perfect love casts out fear." 1 John 4:18 convent), embarking on a spiritual and emotional journey that would fuel her life.

Mission Statement
The labor room is a chapel, the birthing bed an altar and the laboring woman is an offering of love bringing forth new life into the world. Perfect Love Doula Services understands that birth, especially when approached in love and wonder, is a transformative and sacred moment in the life of a woman. As a woman’s soul is transformed through the physical process of birth, Perfect Love Doulas aim to assist the laboring woman to engage her body, mind and soul in the transformation. About Amanda, Founder
Before becoming a married woman and mother, Amanda Antony spent over 6 years in religious life (i.e. After realizing that her true vocation was to find the man who would hold her in awe and exclaim, “At last, this one is bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh,” she left the convent in search of her beloved. Four year later, she met Benedict who was searching for his “lost rib, tossed across oceans.” They were married in October 2017. In preparation for their first child, Amanda searched for a doula who shared her spiritual and moral outlook on pregnancy, birth and the unborn. She found a doula (whom she loves) through word of mouth and realized the need for Christian leadership in birth preparation and the labor room. She also developed a passion for a whole-person centered, evidence-based birth experience, one that engages the spiritual faculties through prayer. After a time of financial preparation, discernment and training, she made the leap to begin her journey as a doula and birth coach. Amanda looks forward to working with clients who desire to incorporate Christian spirituality into their birth experience. Using both traditional and modern modes of prayer, as well as modern doula techniques, Amanda will help the laboring woman to approach labor with interior strength, confidence and love.

What a week it's been!! Happy birthday again! Little Master G and his mama had a beautiful home birth. I'm so proud of t...
10/11/2025

What a week it's been!! Happy birthday again! Little Master G and his mama had a beautiful home birth. I'm so proud of this family for following her heart and the evidence to go through with a midwife attended home birth for her first baby.

This was my THIRD birth this month! All three were a little early but it all worked out so well and no one overlapped. I'm grateful to Labor of Love Doula Margaret Brennan for shadowing two of these births. She's a wonderful new doula that I'm very happy to be able to work with and share backups.

Now I get a tad of a break before my next due date window at the end of November 🥳

Happy birthday, little boy! You came fast but your mama was so strong and well prepared. Two down and one to go for me t...
10/08/2025

Happy birthday, little boy! You came fast but your mama was so strong and well prepared.

Two down and one to go for me this month!

Little girl R, your mommy and daddy prayed so long and hard for you. You are so very loved. Happy birthday, sweet girl. ...
10/06/2025

Little girl R, your mommy and daddy prayed so long and hard for you. You are so very loved. Happy birthday, sweet girl. 🥳💜

NEWS ALERT! If you are due February or March 2026 and have considered reaching out to me, now is your chance! My fee wil...
09/30/2025

NEWS ALERT! If you are due February or March 2026 and have considered reaching out to me, now is your chance! My fee will increase on November 1, but if you schedule a consultation with me during the month of October, you lock in the lower rate!

*February and March 2026 due dates only, as I am booked for January and plan to take some family time in April.

Schedule your free phone consultation through this link: https://cal.com/perfectlovedoula/freeconsult

Happy birthday, sweet baby girl! Your big sister will be so excited to see you in the morning!
09/26/2025

Happy birthday, sweet baby girl! Your big sister will be so excited to see you in the morning!

Want to know what I hear at a hospital birth vs. home birth? "What should I do now?"I almost never hear that at a home b...
08/13/2025

Want to know what I hear at a hospital birth vs. home birth?

"What should I do now?"

I almost never hear that at a home birth. I hear it at nearly every single hospital birth. Why? I have some theories.

At the hospital, we have been conditioned to listen and obey. Women are told where (and usually when) to lie down. When she can and can't go to the bathroom (UGH! REALY??) Not to mention all the IV tubes and monitor wires strapped here and there. Laboring women are given directions in the hospital and the expectation is that they will follow. Yes, my job as a doula is to protect that space, but once words have been said, comments made, I can't magically remove them from a woman's mind. I fight an uphill battle at times...

At home, women move more freely. Midwives don't tell laboring women where they should labor, how to move, when to use the restroom. Women laboring at home have an environment conducive to "listening to their bodies." They naturally rock, sway, walk, moan. They just do it!

The only exception that I have seen so far is when baby needs a little extra help navigating the pelvis, then the birth team gently guides the woman to positions that will facilitate birth. But this happens much more rarely and only after clear signs that baby and mama need more help than usual.

A new client recently asked me if the difference between hospital birth and home birth was really that drastic. I answered a resounding, "A thousand percent YES!!"

08/10/2025

We're about to wrap up another 10 Week Group Birth Class tonight! 💗 Join us for one of our 2 new group birth classes:

⚜️ Monday Night Class, starting 8/11
⚜️ Wed Night Class, starting 9/3

Contact us thru our website today to sign up! (All 1nf0 found in c0mments)

08/10/2025

Today I completed 9 hours of prenatal visits! Three clients: one repeat client, two second visits, one first visit, two first time parents, two hospital births, one planned home birth. Three hours with each client/couple. The prenatal visits are crucial for a few reasons.

Our visits help build relationship and trust. I strive to establish and build a mutual trust so that I am not a stranger in the birth space.

We discuss preparations for birth. Birth encompasses our whole selves and being prepared in all areas helps labor to progress smoothly and calmly.

We practice the Miles Circuit and Spinning Babies "Three Sisters of Balance" while discussing optimal fetal positioning. It's also an opportunity to practice hands-on comfort techniques.

I show off my doula bag and all the goods I bring along.

We discuss the importance of postpartum planning and ways to be prepared for the baby's arrival.

Being present at a labor is just part of being a doula. I love every second of every aspect of my work!

08/03/2025
It was an honor to step in for Star of The Sea Doula Services - Britni Sisco CBD as this family joyfully welcomed their ...
08/03/2025

It was an honor to step in for Star of The Sea Doula Services - Britni Sisco CBD as this family joyfully welcomed their baby boy today. Congratulations!!

Sometimes this scares women because they aren't prepared for it, or they have a history of unmanaged mental health compl...
06/30/2025

Sometimes this scares women because they aren't prepared for it, or they have a history of unmanaged mental health complexities.

Are you a Christian woman wanting to truly experience grace in your labor? Are you a woman who understands labor is a th...
06/30/2025

Are you a Christian woman wanting to truly experience grace in your labor? Are you a woman who understands labor is a threshold to embrace rather than something to white-knuckle through in order to hold your baby? Here are my tips for a Christian labor experience!

1. Beginning in pregnancy, invite Christ to be a part of your labor. He knocks at the door, waiting to be asked to join.
2. Pray over your baby and invite your husband to pray over and your baby. Ask the Lord to bless your baby, and your labor.
3. During your labor, have prayer intentions and offer your labor up in union with Him. I always suggest praying for your baby's holiness and his/her vocation.
4. Play Christian music during your labor. Use music as prayer when you don't have the words to pray.
5. Pray during labor and seek union with Christ during contractions. Invite your husband and doula to join in prayer, especially if you aren't able to pray in the moment.
6. In your birth space, include visuals or pictures that draw you to prayer. A Cross or Crucifix. A picture of Our Lord, our Blessed Mother, or Saint. A rosary. Even beautiful pictures of nature that inspire prayer.
7. Memorize a scripture verse, prayer or Saint quote that inspires and motivates you. Having even just a few memorized that you can easily recall can be more helpful than a long list for someone to read out loud.

If these are things that resonate with you, I'd love to talk more about how my work as a Christian doula can help you realize these goals!

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