Perfect Love Doula Services

Perfect Love Doula Services "Perfect love casts out fear." 1 John 4:18 convent), embarking on a spiritual and emotional journey that would fuel her life.

Mission Statement
The labor room is a chapel, the birthing bed an altar and the laboring woman is an offering of love bringing forth new life into the world. Perfect Love Doula Services understands that birth, especially when approached in love and wonder, is a transformative and sacred moment in the life of a woman. As a woman’s soul is transformed through the physical process of birth, Perfect Love Doulas aim to assist the laboring woman to engage her body, mind and soul in the transformation. About Amanda, Founder
Before becoming a married woman and mother, Amanda Antony spent over 6 years in religious life (i.e. After realizing that her true vocation was to find the man who would hold her in awe and exclaim, “At last, this one is bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh,” she left the convent in search of her beloved. Four year later, she met Benedict who was searching for his “lost rib, tossed across oceans.” They were married in October 2017. In preparation for their first child, Amanda searched for a doula who shared her spiritual and moral outlook on pregnancy, birth and the unborn. She found a doula (whom she loves) through word of mouth and realized the need for Christian leadership in birth preparation and the labor room. She also developed a passion for a whole-person centered, evidence-based birth experience, one that engages the spiritual faculties through prayer. After a time of financial preparation, discernment and training, she made the leap to begin her journey as a doula and birth coach. Amanda looks forward to working with clients who desire to incorporate Christian spirituality into their birth experience. Using both traditional and modern modes of prayer, as well as modern doula techniques, Amanda will help the laboring woman to approach labor with interior strength, confidence and love.

Nuchal cords (cord wrapped around baby's neck in utero) is NOT in itself a medical emergency, not a reason to panic, not...
04/08/2026

Nuchal cords (cord wrapped around baby's neck in utero) is NOT in itself a medical emergency, not a reason to panic, not a reason for C-section and should NOT be used to fear monger a mom into an unwanted intervention... nor should it be used to convince the mother that the doctor "saved the baby's life."

Check this out. See the cord? Very beautiful. Very full of blood. Very Not scary. Working perfectly!!!

I'll add another one: "we just want a healthy baby." (Which implies, if you don't do what we say, then YOU don't want a ...
04/08/2026

I'll add another one: "we just want a healthy baby." (Which implies, if you don't do what we say, then YOU don't want a healthy baby)

And I bet you can name 100 more. This is not informed consent. It’s a pattern of automatic prescribing, rushed decisions, and labels handed out without real investigation or explanation. Informed consent is a process, not a signature — and it’s the foundation of ethical care in every area of health, especially birth.

04/07/2026

I promise you, chiropractic care is not the scary thing you think it is... 🩻 🦴🧠

Know what's wild about doula work? You just never know how your day will turn out! I got a call last night that my clien...
04/07/2026

Know what's wild about doula work? You just never know how your day will turn out! I got a call last night that my client's water broke but she wasn't having contractions. I talked to her a few hours later and she was calm, talkative and definitely not in active labor! I reminded her of what active labor feels like mentally and of the 5-1-1 guideline for second time moms. I got a text from her just an hour later saying she was 5-1-1 and going to the birth center! I met them there soon after where baby girl arrived just an hour after me!

Birth is wild, unpredictable but always beautiful and grace-filled.

I left my house at 10am and arrived back just after 2pm! Definitely not the norm for a doula 😅 But whether it's 3 hours, 3 days or somewhere in between, it's my favorite place to be!!

Happy birthday, sweet girl! Born right into mamas hands! Mom was so strong and dad never left her side. What a beautiful...
03/24/2026

Happy birthday, sweet girl! Born right into mamas hands! Mom was so strong and dad never left her side. What a beautiful birth!

How beautiful it was to watch this first time mom do so much work then continue to surrender even when very little went ...
02/13/2026

How beautiful it was to watch this first time mom do so much work then continue to surrender even when very little went according to her plan. Every birth is sacred, even when it looks different than we hoped for.

★★★★★

It hurts my heart to hear a woman explain her birth story and exclaim, "... And the cord was wrapped around his/her neck...
02/03/2026

It hurts my heart to hear a woman explain her birth story and exclaim, "... And the cord was wrapped around his/her neck!!" All with fear in her voice, as though something dangerous had happened. It's usually in the context of the OB somehow saved the baby's life. It makes me sad for her and makes me angry at the OB. Nuchal cords are not explained in full context. Honestly I think some providers like it (consciously or subconsciously) because the idea is part of a savior complex - this OB had some kind of superpowers and saved the baby from a very common normal event in the eyes of the mother.

This is why women have to be fully informed. That informed consent rarely comes from the provider and must be sought out independently.

A nuchal cord occurs when the umbilical cord wraps around a fetus's neck during pregnancy or labor, a common, usually harmless, and non-preventable occurrence in about 1-in-3 .....33% of deliveries. The cord is protected with is what is called whartons jelly and can withstand much manipulation during pregnancy and birth.

Last night, just after midnight, mama welcomed her sweet baby girl, born right into Daddy's waiting hands. Very little f...
01/16/2026

Last night, just after midnight, mama welcomed her sweet baby girl, born right into Daddy's waiting hands. Very little from her birth plan played out exactly as expected but she handed it all with grace.

Congratulations to two lovely new parents, and happy birthday Miss L!

This birth was my last January birth out of 3, all due the 2nd/3rd. One born at 38 weeks, another at 40 and this one a few minutes into 42 weeks. All normal, all healthy, all exactly "on time." Mamas, toss your "due date" aside and focus on your due window of 38-42 weeks. Have all of your preparations completed by 36 weeks. If family/friends won't leave you alone about an exact date, give them 44 weeks as your due date so they leave you alone during your window 😉

01/04/2026
My job is to hold the mothers, so it was an extra special treat to hold this sweet girl! Miss J's mom deeply wanted a VB...
01/02/2026

My job is to hold the mothers, so it was an extra special treat to hold this sweet girl! Miss J's mom deeply wanted a VBAC. I encouraged her to have a supportive VBAC friendly physician and she was so happy she switched to Dr. Jennifer McDonald. Everything was great until a number of complications added up and made a successful VBAC unlikely. Dr. McDonald encouraged her to schedule a cesarian and after she, her husband and I talked and prayed, she agreed.

Her birth was BEAUTIFUL and EMPOWERING. What matters is not how a baby arrives (home birth or cesarian or anything in between). It's how we RESPECT a woman during labor and help her advocate for herself, empower her with knowledge not bias, and enable her to make her own informed decisions without pressure or coercion. Birth is so much more than a healthy baby. It's sacred. It's beautiful.

Thank you, mama, for allowing me to journey with you. You're a strong and beautiful mama, and big Miss J is so blessed to have you for her mama.

P.S. she is the biggest baby I've seen yet, a whopping 10lbs 4oz!!

*Story and picture shared with permission*

Good bye, 2025! I was blessed to attend 17 births this year! 💙 10 boys🩷 7 girls🏠 5 home births🏥 11 hospital births, 1 bi...
01/01/2026

Good bye, 2025! I was blessed to attend 17 births this year!
💙 10 boys
🩷 7 girls
🏠 5 home births
🏥 11 hospital births, 1 birth center
💚 2 VBACs
🍼 8 first time parents
🙏🏻 17 beautiful moments of grace and joy

I'm so deeply grateful for all my 2025 clients, and the two more right around the corner in '26. Happy new year!!

Merry Christmas! 🎄 My family and I went to Christmas Eve Mass. My daughter quickly got in the first pew right in front o...
12/25/2025

Merry Christmas! 🎄

My family and I went to Christmas Eve Mass. My daughter quickly got in the first pew right in front of the nativity. While looking at the statue of the infant Jesus, it occurred to me how incredibly humble our Lord is to come as a baby. He could have come in glory, on a pillar of fire, with a grand entrance. But He chose to come as a baby, with a Mother who had to carry him for 9 months, give birth, then care for him as any other baby.

His choice to come through the pregnancy and birth of Blessed Mary, to come as a small helpless baby, reminds me of how blessed and privileged I am to be a small part of every client's birth story. His birth sanctified every birth.

May this Christmas bring you and your families peace and grace.

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St. Louis, MO

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https://cal.com/perfectlovedoula

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