10/06/2025
KEEP THEM HANDS TO YOUR MF SELF
Recognizing the Silent Signs of Domestic Violence: What to Look For
Recognizing signs of someone suffering in silence from domestic violence can be crucial. Here are some common indicators:
Physical Signs:
- Injuries: Frequent unexplained bruises, cuts, or other injuries.
- Frequent Illness: Regular visits to the doctor for stress-related issues or "accidents."
- Changes in Appearance: Neglecting hygiene, drastic weight changes, or wearing clothes that cover injuries.
Behavioral Signs:
- Isolation: Withdrawal from friends, family, or social activities.
- Low Self-Esteem: Constantly belittling themselves or expressing feelings of worthlessness.
- Fearfulness: Exhibiting anxiety around their partner; seeming fearful of making decisions.
- Defensiveness: Overly cautious or defensive when talking about their partner.
Emotional Signs:
- Mood Swings: Sudden changes in mood or emotional instability.
- Depression or Anxiety: Signs of severe depression or excessive anxiety, often without a clear trigger.
- Avoidance of Topics: Hesitance to discuss their relationship or partner, or changing the subject quickly.
Practical Signs:
- Financial Control: Lack of access to money or being unable to make financial decisions independently.
- Unexplained Absences: Frequent unexplained lateness or absence from work/school.
Verbal Signs:
- Vague Language: Using vague or non-committal language when discussing their personal life.
- Justifying: Making excuses for their partner’s behavior or downplaying serious issues.
If you suspect someone may be suffering from domestic violence, it's important to approach the situation with care and sensitivity. Encouraging them to seek help and providing support without judgment can be crucial. If you or someone you know is in immediate danger, it's important to contact the authorities or a local support organization for assistance.
