Anxiety Specialists of St. Louis

Anxiety Specialists of St. Louis We help people with anxiety and OCD go from afraid and stuck to living a life they love.

OCD loves to throw possibilities at you like they’re urgent and true.But ICBT helps you notice the trap.👉 Is this releva...
07/23/2025

OCD loves to throw possibilities at you like they’re urgent and true.

But ICBT helps you notice the trap.

👉 Is this relevant right now?
👉 What evidence do my senses give me?

Without those things? It stays in the world of possibilities (like that the ceiling could collapse, your spouse could be robbing a bank, or that your lunch was contaminated by a spy). And when we have possibility and no evidence, we assume that possibility can be safely ignored.

📌 Save this for when your brain is treating a what if...? like it's actually happening.

OCD assigns urgency to thoughts based on fear, not facts.In ICBT, we slow it down.Not every “maybe” deserves your full a...
07/16/2025

OCD assigns urgency to thoughts based on fear, not facts.

In ICBT, we slow it down.

Not every “maybe” deserves your full attention.

✨ You’re allowed to notice the thought and move on.

📌 Keep this post handy the next time your mind says “figure it out now.”

Your brain is a powerful storyteller.It builds detailed “what if” scenarios and convinces you they’re urgent.But ICBT re...
07/09/2025

Your brain is a powerful storyteller.
It builds detailed “what if” scenarios and convinces you they’re urgent.

But ICBT reminds you:
→ Imagination isn’t evidence.
→ Possibility ≠ probability.

📌 Save this post for the next time your thoughts feel real just because they’re vivid.

Want to know the best thing about OCD?It’s predictable. Once you know the tricks your OCD plays, you’ll be less likely t...
02/03/2025

Want to know the best thing about OCD?

It’s predictable. Once you know the tricks your OCD plays, you’ll be less likely to fall for them.

Have you ever seen the magician David Copperfield make the Statue of Liberty disappear?

When I first saw that trick, a part of me really thought maybe he had made it disappear.

I knew that made no sense but I had no other explanation. I didn’t understand what was going on. Once the trick was revealed, I got it.

I’ll never fall for that one again.

Your OCD is the same way. When you don’t know what’s going on and you can’t see where your worry is coming from, you’re going to fall for it.

One of the most common tricks I see with my clients is reverse reasoning. You start with a conclusion (something is dangerous, you made a mistake, etc.) and then work backward to find reasons to support the conclusion.

If you ONLY followed the facts, you wouldn’t come to that conclusion.

This is why others around you aren’t coming to that conclusion. They are following the facts.

For example, I read something on Reddit about how a fire started in the walls of someone’s house. I wonder if my house could catch on fire. I think work backward and think about how old my house is, that it hasn’t been inspected in a while, that once the lights flickered and that seems bad, and that my landlord might be trying to save money by not replacing bad wiring.

Reverse reasoning is very common in OCD. I hope this helps you recognize this trick in your thinking.

If this was helpful to you, save for future reference!

If you’re stuck in a never ending loop of OCD thoughts, it might be because you’re stuck in the world of possibility.Ove...
01/29/2025

If you’re stuck in a never ending loop of OCD thoughts, it might be because you’re stuck in the world of possibility.

Over relying on something merely being possible as a reason for thinking about it is one of OCD’s biggest, stickiest traps. Knowing how to get unstuck (or sidestep this trap altogether) can move you along the path to recovery.

Here’s how:
Realize that there are MILLIONS of possibilities around you all the time that you completely ignore (the ceiling could fall on you, your coffee could be poisoned, your pet could go wild and attack your face while you sleep, et. etc.).
In non-OCD parts of your life, you require evidence in order to take a possibility seriously (cracks in ceiling, your coffee tastes like chemicals, your cat has been acting aggressively, etc.).. With OCD, that requirement is often waived.
Practice using the same standards you require for non-OCD possibilities (evidence) for OCD possibilities.

The next time you have an OCD thought, stop and ask yourself if you are taking this possibility too seriously.

ICBT is a great approach if you feel like this is an area that’s keeping you stuck.

Is possibility relevant to your OCD? Let me know in the comments.

Start with a simple sitting meditation. Set a timer, find a comfortable way of sitting (not so comfortable that you fall...
01/31/2024

Start with a simple sitting meditation. Set a timer, find a comfortable way of sitting (not so comfortable that you fall asleep), close your eyes, and focus your attention on the in and out of your breathing. Each time your mind wanders, bring it back to your breathing. That's it. Simple but not easy!

01/16/2024
Sitting and listening to audio from an app is not all that's necessary for mindfulness. The attitudes and mindset you br...
01/09/2024

Sitting and listening to audio from an app is not all that's necessary for mindfulness. The attitudes and mindset you bring to mindfulness practice are crucial. These include nonjudging, patience, beginner's mind, trust, non-striving, acceptance, and letting go. Without these attitudes, your mindfulness practice will be undermined.

Read more about these attitudes, summarized from Jon Kabat-Zinn in his book Full Catastrophe Living, in our latest blog post: https://anxietyspecialistsofstl.com/mindfulness-for-anxiety/?utm_campaign=meetedgar&utm_medium=social&utm_source=meetedgar.com

"In the course of our daily lives we often waste a lot of energy denying and resisting what is already fact. When we do ...
01/04/2024

"In the course of our daily lives we often waste a lot of energy denying and resisting what is already fact. When we do that, we are basically trying to force situations to be the way we would like them to be, which only makes for more tension" -From Full Catastrophe Living by John Kabat-Zinn

This month we're focusing on mindfulness and benefits of the practice. We're going to be reading from Full Catastrophe L...
01/02/2024

This month we're focusing on mindfulness and benefits of the practice. We're going to be reading from Full Catastrophe Living by Jon Kabat-Zinn and sharing quotes from the book. A comprehensive review study from 2010 showed that mindfulness based therapy was effective at reducing anxiety and depressive symptoms Evidence has only grown since then! Do you have experience with mindfulness practices? We'd love to hear about them below.

Our recent blog outlines three simple ways you can increase your positive feelings. In addition to the benefits of just ...
12/29/2023

Our recent blog outlines three simple ways you can increase your positive feelings. In addition to the benefits of just feeling better, increasing positive feelings also decreases anxiety and sadness and improves our social connections.

Try out these three tips to help lessen anxiety. Track the skills by journaling about what you did and how you felt before, during, and after.

Read the full blog post at http://www.anxietyspecialistsofstl.com/feel-less-anxious?utm_campaign=meetedgar&utm_medium=social&utm_source=meetedgar.com

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