08/10/2012
A personal message from A Grandson for Hire, LLC's founder, J. Beers:
Summer is finally running its last course here in Missouri. The weather has already cooled down some.
Before you know it, Thanksgiving will be coming around. Christmas. These are times that I think about my family. This is when I realize how truly blessed and grateful I am to have the family that I do.
Family is the stronghold of each household. The anchor that holds each of us down, and helps us, no matter what season it may be, no matter what we may be going through.
But for some, family life isn't what it should be. It's not at its full capacity.
I am referring to many senior citizens and disabled individuals not only in our state of Missouri, but everywhere. It saddens me that these individuals who raised us don't always have the family around to assist them when they need it the most.
And I'm not just talking about assistance with errands and general household duties. Emotional support can make the biggest difference in their lives. Unfortunately, many just don't have that support system in place.
As the family becomes nuclear... children grow up and move away to take on their careers and raise their children, our dear senior citizens and other disabled individuals can become left behind.
Almost like a burden that most simply don't want to deal with, life can become more daunting and challenging in their old age or physically-challenging state. Unfortunately, these individuals, a lot of times, will succumb to assisted living centers and nursing homes.
These homes promise a great life. It all looks good from the outside in. Luxurious, even.
But once this individual, or couple even, are moved into these large, corporately-owned, investor-backed centers, they are ultimately stacked into small apartment-like units. These cramped quarters offer little to call home. The large staffs of these centers are untrained, unskilled, and can be very difficult to deal with.
The expenses behind these institutions are something else entirely. For the much-loved senior citizens of each of our families, they hand over all of their financial information to these centers. These powerhouse institutions want to know about ALL of their assets available- houses. Finances. Investments. Any additional properties not being used. Assets to be liquidated to pay for this simple residency.
These centers will then put our loved ones on an allowance, and a very meager one at that. After they get their hands on our parents, grandparents, or even great grandparents' hard-earned nest eggs, there isn't anything left for the children or for the grandchildren to go to college with, or to even leave behind for them to remember them by.
And for the disabled? It's even worse, as they are already, most of the time, on a tight budget to begin with. As the situation with our senior citizens, all financial control is handed over to the facilities.
Now you are thinking, "oh come on... it's not that bad". Most are over the top expensive. Not all are that bad,true. But most assisted living centers and nursing homes, I hate to tell you, fit that mold. It's not a pretty picture.
Let's keep our seniors and disabled members of our families IN THEIR HOMES. These are the homes they purchased through their blood, sweat, and tears. From their own elbow grease of better days gone by. These homes are their reward, for their hard work.
These are the places that they have purchased and worked hard so they can grow old in.
Their homes are places we have come to know because they raised us there. Maybe they have helped raise OUR children there from time to time. The family dinners, the holidays, it was all spent THERE. In their homes.
Let's respect our loved ones- our seniors, our disabled family members, and be there for them. Let's keep them IN THEIR HOMES and ensure that they have the support they need.
Let's also get them the help they need around the house, from assistance in the bathroom, to transportation, meal preparation. There are lots of companies who can provide assistance to them. And if they are to stubborn to reach out for help, understandably so, go ahead and make that call for them.
And if your loved ones are needing affordable home care AND moral support, call A Grandson for Hire. We are here to help them.
Let us help you, as well.
Have a wonderful weekend. And remember, let's ensure that our loved ones get the help they need.
-J. Beers