Coaching Post Toxic Relationship

12/23/2025

Merry Christmas from Coaching Post Toxic Relationship :)

12/21/2025

It is very saddening to see the frequency with which the victims of toxic relationships wonder about how they can make the toxic person feel sorry for what they inflicted on them.

This is a common question that all victims have at some point, and with time, victims learn that this is an unimportant matter to solve, and they stop wondering about the feelings of the toxic person, their thoughts, and their valuation. Instead, they learn their own feelings, their own thoughts, and their own self-worth. Only then, the healing become a goal within reach.

If the above question remains an important question to the victim long after ending the toxic relationship, it then represents a clear indication of a terrible wound that this toxic relationship caused those victims. It means the healing has not yet been achieved, and the pain is still present to ruin their inner peace.

Healing is often prolonged, but it is achievable. Learning about yourself, understanding your own feelings, and your own thoughts are critical in this journey toward healing. Only then will the voice of the toxic person weaken in your head, and clarity will start, and that is when healing becomes possible.

Roula al-Dahhak, M.D
Neurologist and Coach
CoachingPostToxicRelationship.com
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11/26/2025

Happy Thanksgiving from Coaching Post Toxic Relationship to all of you.

We will resume our services in January 2026.

Stay strong, remember that you survived, and keep your faith solid.

Dr. Roula al-Dahhak, M.D

11/23/2025

We are called to forgive the trespasses of others in order for our trespasses to be forgiven.

The church teaches this as the only way to make it to Heaven; it is in the Lord's Prayer after all.

Some men of God do not feel that they owe the victims of toxic relationships any apologies for contributing to the gaslighting and the mental and emotional abuse that a person received during a toxic relationship of which they were enablers. They do not believe they should ask for forgiveness. Instead, when the victim decides to forgive them anyways, for the fear of losing her/his salvation, they laugh dismissively. Not even a sincere "Thank you".

And the irony is that few minutes later, the same man of God is standing up preaching the congregation about how to walk in the path of God!

It is very difficult to keep showing up among all this hypocrisy, but then a story from the Desert Fathers comes to mind and it reminds one that we should continue to receive the Holy Gifts even from a rotten dead dog's mouth!

Roula al-Dahhak, M.D
Neurologist and Life Coach

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11/12/2025

Mocking the suffering of the victims of toxic relationships is not to be tolerated by CoachingPostToxicRelationship team. We stand with the victims and against bullying and against all who lack empathy.

Victims of toxic relationships witnessed evil through the toxic relationship, and they endured, they tolerated the toxicity, mental ambush and emotional abuse, driven mostly by their empathy and feeling sorry for the toxic person.

The toxic person was relentless is keeping those victims attached. Playing on their best quality of empath that they are known to have. The toxic person recruited all they could: Children, family, friends, colleagues, religious leaders, and sometimes the therapists, all to influence the victim's decision and to make them stay.

Victims of toxic relationship are trying to heal, and through the journey towards healing, they are rediscovering their voice, their strength, and their belief in themselves. They fight rumination constantly, and they avert their eyes away from their painful past, and towards a better future.

Comments received on our page on social media from bullies against the victims' experiences are not tolerated, and those toxic people will be blocked. We figure out you are the problem in the relationships in your lives, and we feel sorry for your partners. Additionally, we will continue to pray for the ones in your lives who have to deal with you. We will pray for them to break away free from you, and when this happens, I would like to offer them my coaching services for a big discount.

Dr. Roula al-Dahhak
Neurologist and Coach
Coaching Post Toxic Relationship
314-296-4404
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11/02/2025

The toxic person had their chance to do the right thing, and they made the decision not to, so whatever happens to them next, it is not your problem.

Keep moving forward, knowing their salvation is up to them, and it is not your mission to accomplish it.

However, you can pray for their souls.

Roula al-Dahhak, M.D
Neurologist and Life Coach
Coaching Post Toxic Realtionship
314-296-4404

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11/01/2025

Narcissists are never at peace. This is a fact.

They tried to destroy someone that God created, they tried to destroy their victims' core beliefs of empathy, trust, and truth, and that makes this a spiritual war between them and God.

Rest assured that God is fighting instead of you, and he will deprive them of any chance of peace and happiness for what they've done.

No success, or a new relationship, or richness will fill out the heart that was deemed an enemy of God.

Blessed All Saints' Day tomorrow to all of you :)

Dr. Roula al-Dahhak
Neurologist and life coach

10/19/2025

Your first step of healing started when you refused to stay in the chaos that was created in the toxic relationship. By the end of that relationship, when you figured out their strategies and you refused to engage when they tried over and over to confuse you through intentional evil plans, that is when your power started to re-emerge.

Now, the journey towards healing starts, and healing becomes an achievable goal.

Roula al-Dahhak, M.D
Neurologist and life coach
314-296-4404

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10/18/2025

Read this blog to learn how a toxic relationship with your brain can worsen your memory.

Roula al-Dahhak, M.DNeurologist and Memory CoachWe often think of toxic relationships as being between people — with a partner, a boss, or a family member. But sometimes, the most damaging relationship we have is with our own brain.When you constantly criticize yourself, live under chronic stress,...

10/15/2025

Toxic relation can exist between you and your body (thinking you are fat, or have ugly something in your body) and also with your brain (thinking you are not as smart as someone else).

Try to complement the thing that you do not like about your body (or your brain) and see the difference.

End this toxic relationship with yourself!

Dr. Roula al-Dahhak
Neurologist, and Coach
Coaching Post Toxic Relationship.

“Neuroscience-informed coaching for women recovering from toxic marriages, family dynamics, or workplace trauma. Reclaim your identity and trust yourself again.”

10/07/2025

How do you feel when you see that the toxic person is still using gaslighting even after they learned that you figured them out?

Share your experience on this point in the comments.

10/07/2025

Triangulation! What a toxic person's favorite tool! They excel in utilizing it even after ending the toxic relationship. Fight back by preventing their attempts to use this tool against you.