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Since 1976, our mission is to reduce the impact and incidence of relationship violence and sexual assault through education, crisis intervention, therapy and support services.

As we celebrate Harriet Tubman's fierceness, creativity, courage, and faith on her birthday today, may we remember her i...
03/10/2026

As we celebrate Harriet Tubman's fierceness, creativity, courage, and faith on her birthday today, may we remember her in her entirety--not only as the indomitable conductor who led so many people to safety and freedom, but also the organizer, the spy, the suffragist; the mother, the matriarch, the landowner, the place of solace for older adults in her community.

May we honor her legacy by continuing to build communities where every human has dignity and sovereignty over their own life, thriving in the safety and autonomy that is everyone's birthright. May we continue to advocate for a world without violence, a place where children can go to bed with full bellies and a peaceful, fear-free sleep.

May we work together beyond imaginary boundaries and made-up differences, leaning into our humanness and care for one another, remembering that we are more alike than we are different, that this home is home to us all, and that we all deserve the safe community we long to build.

Harriet Tubman knew it was in her reach. She had faith in her work, even when it seemed impossible. May we carry that faith today as we continue the fight.

“I have heard their groans and sighs, and seen their tears, and I would give every drop of blood in my veins to free them.” --Harriet Tubman

This is what freedom looked like after the war — not a battlefield, but a front porch.

Around 1887, a photograph captured something rare and sacred: Harriet Tubman standing at her home in Auburn, New York — not as a fugitive, not as a wartime scout, not as a whispered legend — but as the matriarch of a household she built with her own hands.

She stands on the left in the image. Beside her is Gertie Davis, the young girl she and her husband adopted. Seated nearby is her second husband, Nelson Davis. Others in the photograph are believed to be boarders or relatives — part of the extended community that flowed through Tubman’s home.

Look at that image closely.

This is the woman who escaped slavery in 1849.
The woman who returned again and again — risking her life to lead others north along the Underground Railroad.
The woman who later served as a scout, nurse, and spy for Union forces during the Civil War.

And yet here she is — on a porch. Grounded. Rooted. Home.

Born Araminta Ross in the early 1820s in Maryland, Tubman knew bo***ge intimately. She carried the physical scars of enslavement, including a traumatic head injury that caused seizures throughout her life. But even that did not stop her. Before the war, she made at least thirteen documented missions back into slaveholding territory, guiding dozens to freedom.

After the war, she did something equally radical.

She chose to build.

In Auburn, she purchased land and established a permanent residence. It became more than a house. It was refuge. It was gathering place. It was strategy room. It was sanctuary.

In 1869, she married Nelson Davis — a formerly enslaved man from North Carolina who had enlisted in the 8th United States Colored Infantry Regiment in 1863. Like many Black soldiers, he fought not only for the Union, but for the full meaning of emancipation. After the war, he settled in Auburn, working and building a life alongside Tubman.

Their union represented something profound: two people once enslaved, now choosing each other freely.

In 1874, five years into their marriage, they adopted a daughter, Gertie. That choice, too, speaks volumes. Tubman had spent her early adulthood rescuing others’ children. Now she mothered again — intentionally, lovingly.

But freedom did not erase hardship.

Nelson Davis’s health declined in his later years. Tuberculosis weakened him, and steady employment became difficult. He died on October 14, 1888 — just about a year after the photograph was taken.

That image, then, becomes even more precious.

It captures a fleeting chapter: Tubman as wife, adoptive mother, landowner, community anchor.

Before Nelson, there had been John Tubman, the man she married in slavery. When she escaped in 1849, he did not follow. When she returned to Maryland to rescue others, she learned he had remarried. That chapter closed quietly. Freedom sometimes demands leaving even what you love.

And yet, Harriet Tubman kept loving.

In her later years, she remained active in humanitarian work and civil rights causes. She advocated for women’s suffrage. She established the Harriet Tubman Home for the Aged on her property — ensuring that formerly enslaved elders would have dignity in their final days.

The porch in that 1887 photograph is not accidental.

For Black Americans in the late 19th century, a porch represented arrival. Stability. Ownership. Visibility. It meant: We are here. We endured. And we built something that cannot be auctioned away.

Harriet Tubman is often remembered in motion — crossing rivers at night, pistol at her side, guiding trembling souls northward.

But this image reminds us of another truth:

She didn’t just lead people to freedom.

She created a life within it.

From Araminta Ross to General Tubman.
From fugitive to homeowner.
From conductor to caretaker.

And on that Auburn porch, surrounded by family and neighbors, we see not only a legend —

We see a woman who survived enough to finally sit down.

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EXTRA! EXTRA! Hot off the press! (Not So) Breaking News!Did you know that women still make less money than their male co...
03/08/2026

EXTRA! EXTRA! Hot off the press! (Not So) Breaking News!
Did you know that women still make less money than their male counterparts for the same jobs? According to the American Association of University Women (AAUW)'s 2026 report, "women working full-time, year-round earned 81 cents for every dollar earned by men." These numbers are even lower for women working part-time and seasonal jobs. This International Women's Day, consider what you can do to advocate and support a more equitable world for everyone!

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✔"A Well-Trained Wife: My Escape from Christian Patriarchy" by Tia LevingsUp next..."The Power" by Naomi AldermanThank y...
03/06/2026

✔"A Well-Trained Wife: My Escape from Christian Patriarchy" by Tia Levings
Up next..."The Power" by Naomi Alderman
Thank you to everyone who joined us at our first book club meeting earlier this week! It was a gift to be in community with everyone, discussing this important book. For anyone looking to join the Lotus Lounge, registration for the Zoom link can be found here: https://us02web.zoom.us/meeting/register/cOOcWI4DS3q90FAdHB7qFg

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Which disability rights movement leaders and activists are you honoring this Women's History Month?
03/06/2026

Which disability rights movement leaders and activists are you honoring this Women's History Month?

March is Women’s History Month.

Disabled women have shaped history, advanced civil rights, challenged artistic norms and transformed how we understand disability.

From Judy Heumann’s leadership in the disability rights movement to Harriet Tubman’s abolitionist legacy, from Frida Kahlo’s groundbreaking art to Alice Wong’s impact on disability storytelling and advocacy, their contributions continue to influence generations.

Representation matters. History includes disabled women. Who else would you add to this list? Let us know in the comments.

Image description: Graphic titled “Disabled Women Who Shaped History” with NDI logo in the top right corner. The slide features four women with brief biographies and photos: Judy Heumann (1947–2023), disability rights activist and wheelchair user who helped lead the 504 Sit-in and advance the Americans with Disabilities Act; Harriet Tubman (c. 1822–1913), abolitionist and political activist who sustained a traumatic brain injury and likely lived with epilepsy; Frida Kahlo (1907–1954), Mexican painter who lived with chronic pain and mobility impairments; and Alice Wong (1974–2025), disability rights activist with spinal muscular atrophy and founder of the Disability Visibility Project. Portrait images of each woman appear below their biographies.

Believe, empower, and advocate with Safe Connections!Want to get more involved with Safe Connections, learn some active ...
03/05/2026

Believe, empower, and advocate with Safe Connections!

Want to get more involved with Safe Connections, learn some active communication skills, provide compassionate care for crisis callers, and help increase safety in our community? As a Crisis Advocate Volunteer, you will help our Crisis Helpline and Textline operate 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. Training is in-person, and volunteering is remote, with shifts on Saturdays and Sundays. We connect callers to resources, provide education about domestic violence and sexual abuse, and offer a kind, caring place for callers to get support at any hour.

If you are age 18+ and willing to complete in-person, multi-session training with a Crisis Advocate, apply for a screening interview with Safe Connections staff at https://safeconnections.org/give/volunteer/.

Can't volunteer right now, but still want to help? Be sure to share this post to help get the word out!

[Caption: White ribbon reads, "Believe, empower, advocate with Safe Connections. Image of twelve hands in varying colors raised over a blue arch surrounded by blue and pink stars. Text reads, "Be a Crisis Advocate Volunteer. Provide compassionate care for crisis callers, create a safer St. Louis community, learn active communication skills. Volunteers at Safe Connections help our Crisis Helpline and Textline operate 24 hours a day, 365 days a year. We connect callers to resources, provide education about domestic violence and sexual abuse, and offer a kind, caring place for callers to get support at any hour. Shifts are remote. Requirements: Age 18+, a screening interview with staff, in-person, multi-session training with a Crisis Advocate, minimum commitment of six hours a month for one year (Saturday or Sunday). Ready to apply? Visit https://safeconnections.org/give/volunteer/." Image of Safe Connections logo featuring multi-colored lotus. Text beneath reads, "Our mission: To reduce the impact and incidents of relationship violence and sexual assault through education, crisis intervention, therapy, and support services."]

Looking for the perfect Women's History Month gift for the girls and women in your life? How about a ticket to our 19th ...
03/04/2026

Looking for the perfect Women's History Month gift for the girls and women in your life? How about a ticket to our 19th annual TOGETHER! Brunch to celebrate their strength and resilience? For tickets and more information, visit https://safeconnections.org/events/19th-annual-together-brunch/

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We work to end domestic and sexual abuse in St. Louis, Missouri by helping surivivors reclaim their lives and providing education to our youth.

Several joyful celebrations of Holi, the Hindu festival of colors, will take place in the St. Louis region this week. Du...
03/02/2026

Several joyful celebrations of Holi, the Hindu festival of colors, will take place in the St. Louis region this week. Durga Temple will also host a Holi Celebration with a DJ, food, and of course, colors! https://www.facebook.com/share/p/1877Tpn2au/

If you enjoy this festival of renewal and unity, where will you be celebrating? Share your favorite Holi memories or what you are most looking forward to in the comments.

I'm honored to share that Anandamaya Sound + Movement is a sponsor of Holi 2026, the largest Festival of Colors celebration in St. Louis.

Holi is a joyful, community-centered festival rooted in Indian tradition that celebrates renewal, unity, and the return of light. Supporting this event is deeply aligned with Anandamaya’s values of honoring origin, lineage, and collective joy.

I'm grateful to stand alongside organizers, artists, and community partners who are bringing this celebration to life.

📍 Stacy Park
🗓 Saturday, March 7
🎶 Free, family-friendly, outdoor celebration

Happy Women's History Month & Social Workers Month! What better way to kick off March than with a thank you to the women...
03/01/2026

Happy Women's History Month & Social Workers Month!
What better way to kick off March than with a thank you to the women (two pictured here) who are a part of the long history of thought-leaders, advocates, and trailblazers who worked to end violence in our community (many who continued and still to this day work to make our world a better place!) This month, we celebrate all of you!

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Survivors of relationship and sexual harm may also be in the midst of cancer treatments. Here are a few ideas on how we ...
02/27/2026

Survivors of relationship and sexual harm may also be in the midst of cancer treatments. Here are a few ideas on how we can all support survivors in the midst and/or beginning cancer treatments.
- Check in about emergency contact preferences
- Offer care that is supportive to treatment (virtual options, text messages, food deliveries)
- Safety plan for if their partner tries to stop access to treatment

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We LOVE The Novel Neighbor ! We are delighted to be in partnership with them as our official bookseller for the Lotus Lo...
02/26/2026

We LOVE The Novel Neighbor ! We are delighted to be in partnership with them as our official bookseller for the Lotus Lounge. Books can be purchased online or in-person at a 20% discount using the code "SAFE" at check-out. Scan the QR code or visit safeconnections.org/events to register for the book club link!

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The barriers for men are high. Why? Stereotype, misinformation and the well-founded fear that no one will believe them. ...
02/26/2026

The barriers for men are high. Why? Stereotype, misinformation and the well-founded fear that no one will believe them.

Our message to men: We believe you.


Find us if you need resources and support. 314-531-2003.

Safe Connections sends this reminder: There's always support.

Comment with your favorite reading companion!In preparation for the Lotus Lounge, we asked Safe Connections staff and in...
02/25/2026

Comment with your favorite reading companion!
In preparation for the Lotus Lounge, we asked Safe Connections staff and interns to share some of their favorite reading companions. Here were some of the first answers we received.

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