05/04/2025
Yes. Every word of this!!! Grateful for this work, my beautiful clients, and to have a friend like Liza White Birth Services ♥️
I’m deep in the weeds of editing right now, slowly chipping away at galleries and holding these stories with so much care. I’ve been thinking a lot about the invisible workload we talk about with mothers (which is such an important conversation), but birth workers carry an invisible load too—one that often goes unseen.
We’re on call 24/7, sometimes 365 days a year. We sleep lightly, phones on loud, hearts half-awake, waiting for the moment someone says, “It’s time.” We cancel plans, reschedule family moments, miss birthdays and bedtimes—not because we have to, but because we choose to show up for you.
One part of that invisible work is editing. It’s not glamorous, but it’s sacred. I pour myself into every frame, making sure your story is told honestly and beautifully. I try to be intentional with what I capture so I’m not drowning in footage, but even then—photos and videos combined—I spend an average of 10+ hours on each birth. Sometimes more.
I love this work deeply. But I also hear, often, how expensive it is to hire a birth worker. The truth? Many of us are working for far less than we deserve. Not because we don’t value ourselves—but because we value you. Because we believe your story matters. Because we love this work, and we love you.