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04/10/2026

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04/07/2026

Jerry Earl Lane

Jerry Earl Lane, a devout man of faith and a beloved figure within his family and community, passed away peacefully on April 5, 2026, in Stillwater, Oklahoma. Born on April 20, 1934, in Cushing, Oklahoma, Jerry exemplified a life devoted to service, faith, and family.

Jerry’s early years were marked by a deep commitment to his country and his God. As a young man, he answered the call to serve by joining the United States Air Force, where he nurtured a lifelong affection for airplanes. Following his active duty, he continued his service in the Air Force Reserves for an additional four years. His passion for flight remained undiminished; he fulfilled his dream of becoming a pilot, often taking to the skies on clear, sunny days to marvel at the beauty of God’s creation from above.

Aside from his aviation interests, Jerry found much joy in simpler pursuits. He treasured his time fishing and flying model airplanes, yet it was his mastery of the steel guitar that truly set him apart. Renowned for his skill, he spent countless hours perfecting his craft and was even invited to join a professional band for touring. However, Jerry’s profound love for his family prevailed, and he chose to place their stability and well-being above the uncertainties of a musician's life on the road. Instead, he created a music room at home, where he played with the family band, “The Heavenly Echos” during family gatherings. His music and presence were sources of comfort and joy to all who knew him.

Jerry's career as a minister reflected his unwavering dedication to his faith and his congregation. Retired from ministry, he remained a pillar of wisdom and spiritual guidance to his family and church community, who will deeply feel the loss of his steady presence.

He was preceded in death by his loving parents, C.B. and Hattie Lane; his wife, Carol Lane; his sister, Loretta Watkins; his twin brother, Jack Lane; his brother, Robert Lane; and his granddaughter, Amanda Jane Deering.

Jerry is survived by his children: Roger Earl Lane and wife Diane of Stillwater, Anita Mae Watkins and husband Mike Watkins of Agra, Jerry Neal Lane of Florida, and John Blanchard Lane and wife Kelly of Texas. He is also remembered fondly by his siblings Betty Unfred and Frank Lane, as well as by his grandchildren Jerry Deering, James Deering, Katie Lane, Garrett Lane, Brandi Waits, Alicia Deering, Carson Lane, Gavin Lane, Breanna Reese, Myka Lane, Ross Lane, Alison Rossdeatscher, and 17 great-grandchildren who carry forward his legacy.

Pallbearers will be Tristan Deering, Kyler Deering, Gavin Lane, Carson Lane, Jackson Waits, and Zac Deering. Honorary pallbearers Garrett Lane, Noah Branson, Daylen Deering, Ross Lane, Jerry Derring, and James Deering.

The family will welcome friends and loved ones for a visitation on April 9, 2026, from 4:00 PM to 8:00 PM at Stillwater - Dighton Marler Funeral Home, located at 5106 N Washington St, Stillwater, OK 74075. The funeral service will be held on April 10, 2026, at 10:30 AM at Perkins Church of the Firstborn, 404 E 92nd St, Perkins, OK 74059, followed by burial at Glenwood Cemetery on Fairground Road, Perkins, OK, commencing at 11:30 AM.

Jerry Earl Lane’s life was a testament to devotion — to faith, to family, and to the simple joys that brought meaning to each day. His memory will endure in the hearts of those he loved and the community he served so faithfully.

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04/06/2026

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04/05/2026

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04/03/2026

Alva Fred Cole

Alva Fred Cole, a beloved husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather, and dear friend, passed away peacefully on Saturday, March 23, 2026, in Stillwater, Oklahoma. Born on October 28, 1946, in Clinton, Oklahoma to Alva Allen Cole and Mary Ethel (Mastin) Cole. Fred’s life journey was one marked by dedication, kindness, and an unwavering commitment to his family and faith.

Fred grew up in Weatherford, Oklahoma, where he attended school and graduated in 1964. Demonstrating a love for service early in life, he joined the United States Army in 1966 and served honorably until his discharge on October 24, 1969. His time in the military shaped him deeply, reinforcing values of discipline, integrity, and devotion.

In 1976, Fred embarked on a new chapter, becoming the Manager of Dunlap Sporting Goods in Oklahoma City. His passion and vision led to an expansion from one store to three locations, showcasing his entrepreneurship and leadership. Four years later, in 1980, Fred took a courageous step and established his own sporting goods business. Yet, amid his success in the sporting goods field, he felt a higher calling. Sensing God’s guidance, he sold his enterprise and purchased a farm in Perkins, Oklahoma, dedicating himself fully to evangelical ministry and missions. Fred embraced this sacred purpose with the same love and devotion that defined every facet of his life. He was a member of World Harvest Church in Stillwater.

Known widely for his loving and kind nature, Fred’s warmth touched all who knew him. His generosity, gentle spirit, and steadfast faith left an indelible mark on his community and all whose lives he entered.

Fred is lovingly remembered by his wife, Shelley, whose partnership and support were constants in his life. He is also survived by his daughter, Mary Anne Cantwell of Oklahoma City, Oklahoma; and son, Tom Cole of Faye, Oklahoma. Their family grew richly with three grandchildren and one great-grandchild, all of whom were sources of immense joy for Fred. His sister, Katherine Sinner of Westlake Village, California, also survives him, along with numerous nieces, nephews, and a wide circle of cherished friends who hold his memory close in their hearts.

Fred’s parents, Alva Allen Cole and Mary Ethel (Mastin) Cole, preceded him in death, having laid the foundation of love and faith that sustained him throughout his life.

A Celebration of Life honoring Alva Fred Cole will be held on Sunday, April 19, 2026, at 11:45 AM at World Harvest Church, located at 1718 West Lakeview Road, Stillwater, Oklahoma. This gathering will provide all who loved Fred an opportunity to remember and honor a man who exemplified kindness, strength, and an unwavering commitment to his faith and family.

Alva Fred Cole leaves behind a legacy of love that will continue to inspire those who knew him. His life was a testament to the power of following one’s calling with courage and compassion, and his memory will forever be cherished by his family and friends.

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04/03/2026

Ronald Lee Funderburg

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04/03/2026

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04/01/2026

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03/30/2026

Mary Kathryn Webb

Mary Kathryn Webb, 85, of Perry, Oklahoma, passed away peacefully on Saturday, March 28, 2026. A woman of strength, spirit, and deep devotion to her family, Mary will be remembered for her vibrant red hair, her feisty determination, and the steadfast love she shared with all who knew her.

Mary was born on December 7, 1940 in Pryor, Oklahoma to Agnes Watkins Henderson and Elza Earl Henderson. She was one of seven children raised on the family farm in Morrison, Oklahoma. Growing up in a large, hardworking family shaped Mary’s resilience, independence, and strong sense of responsibility. These qualities would define her throughout her life.

She attended Shiloh County School through the eighth grade and graduated from Morrison High School in 1958. Shortly after graduating high school, she began working at Oklahoma State University in the Student Union before marrying and dedicating herself to raising her family.

On June 30, 1967, Mary married the love of her life, Robert Lee “Bob” Webb in a ceremony at the First United Methodist Church in Perry, Oklahoma, officiated by Rev. Clifton McKoy.

Mary and Bob built a loving home together where they raised their five children: Peggy, Bobbie, Rhonda, Keith, and Eric, until Bob’s death on June 13, 1985. She was known to “rule the house” with a yardstick or a flyswatter in hand, always with firm love and a sense of humor that left a lasting impression on her children.

In addition to her role as a homemaker, Mary worked later in life at Charles Machine Works (Ditch Witch) for 16 years. A few years into retirement, she worked part-time at Brown-Dugger Funeral Home and Dighton-Marler Funeral Home. She brought the same dedication and work ethic to her jobs as she did to her family.

Mary found joy in the simple and meaningful things in life. She loved gardening and took pride in canning the fruits of her labor. Her yard, fish pond, and ongoing garden projects were sources of both relaxation and accomplishment. She also enjoyed reading, traveling, shopping, and playing dominoes, but nothing brought her more happiness than spending time with her grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

A woman of strong faith and community spirit, Mary was actively involved in several organizations, including United Methodist Women where she helped prepare funeral dinners, Petunia Gardening Club, Lions Club, Operation Blessing, and the Monday Night Bunko Club. Her generosity and willingness to serve others touched many lives.

Mary is survived by her siblings Eldon “Jim” Henderson and wife, Wilma of Morrison, OK and James Henderson and wife, Deloris of Perry, OK. She was preceded in death by her siblings Earlene Henderson Adler, Elene Henderson, Elza Earl Jr. “Junior” Henderson, and Audrey Henderson Shiever.

She will be lovingly remembered by her children, Rhonda Webb Dugger of Perry, Keith Webb and wife, Julie of Stillwater, Eric Webb and wife, Jana of Orcas Island, WA, grandchildren, Donnie Webb and wife, Madesyn of Dallas, TX, Katherine “KC” Webb of Stillwater, Mesa Webb of Puyallup, WA, and McCabe Webb and wife, Libby of Lake Oswego, OR, great-grandchildren, Karsyn Webb, Kolby Webb, and Kytrell Webb of Stillwater, brother-in-law, William “Billy” Webb and wife, Gloria of Broken Arrow, numerous nieces, nephews, great-nieces, great-nephews, and dear friends who will cherish her memory.

Visitation will be held from 10 a.m. to 8 p.m. Friday, April 3, 2026, at Dighton-Marler Funeral Hme Chapel, Perry. No family visitation is planned. A funeral service will be held at the First United Methodist Church in Perry, Oklahoma on Saturday, April 4, 2026, at 10:00 a.m., with burial to follow at Grace Hill Cemetery pavilion. Condolences may be sent to the family via an online guest book at www.dightonmarler.com.

Memorial contributions may be made in her honor by making checks to the First United Methodist Church and send in care of Dighton-Marler Funeral Home, PO Box 189, Perry, OK 73077.

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03/30/2026

Carey Schreter

Mr. Schreter passed away on Monday, March 23, 2026 at his home in Glencoe, Oklahoma at the age of 83. Graveside services are scheduled for 11:00 A.M. Tuesday, April 7, 2026 at Fort Gibson National Cemetery in Fort Gibson, Oklahoma.

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03/30/2026

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