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01/11/2026

Janet Christine Benes

Janet Christine Benes, 61, born on December 21, 1964, in Stillwater, Oklahoma, passed away peacefully January 6, 2026, in Morrison, Oklahoma. Her journey through life was marked by a deep commitment to her community, a love for children, and a devotion to her family.

Raised in Morrison, Janet graduated from Morrison High School in 1983 before continuing her education at Northeastern Oklahoma A&M in 1984. She pursued her passion for child development and earned a certificate from Meridian Technology in 2001 and 2002.

Janet was not only proud of her roots but also of her contribution to the community she cherished so much. Her service as a board member on the city council exemplified her dedication, as did her countless hours spent volunteering in various organizations, church activities, and school events. She took immense joy in being an active participant in her community, leaving a positive impact on all those around her.

Above all, Janet adored her family, particularly her six grandchildren: Kaid Shane Benes, Kein Donovan Benes, Kavin Edward Douglas Benes, Christine Kay Meeks, Sean Walter Pratt-Miller, and Carter Dewayne Pratt-Miller. They were her whole world, and each brought her immeasurable joy and pride.

Janet is survived by her children, Shane Donovan Benes and Shelby Danielle Meeks; her father, Edward Altman Benes; and her siblings, Catherine Jean Benes and Patti Colleen Swart. She was preceded in death by her mother, Patricia Ann Benes, as well as her paternal and maternal grandparents.

The legacy of Janet Christine Benes will forever remain in the hearts of those who had the privilege of knowing her, marked by her unwavering spirit and boundless love for her family and community.

Celebration of Life will be held on Wednesday, January 14, 2026, at 1:30pm at the Morrison Chirstian Church in Morrison.

Condolences may be sent to the family via an online guestbook at www.dightonmarler.com.

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01/09/2026

Solomon Castleberry Jr.

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01/09/2026

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01/07/2026

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01/06/2026

Kimberly Jo Ramsey

Kimberly Jo Ramsey, age 59, of Ponca City, passed away on January 4, 2026, at home with her husband by her side. A service honoring her will be held at 2:00 PM on Thursday, January 8, 2026, at the Carolyn Renfro Auditorium. Burial will immediately follow at Odd Fellows Cemetery.

Kim was born on May 3, 1966, in Ponca City, Oklahoma, to Charles and Dorothy Fulks. She was known for her baking and cooking, her beautiful flowers, and the way she loved her family. She had a strength that made those around her feel cared for and welcomed. She was a devoted wife, mother, grandmother, sister, and friend.

She spent her life dedicated to her family and friends—always willing to help, listen, or simply brighten someone’s day. Her greatest joys were her children and grandchildren. She will be remembered for the music she loved, the peace she found in fishing, and her unapologetic, say-it-like-it-is spirit.

Kim is survived by her husband, Daryl Ramsey, of the home; her children, Heather Hurd and husband JR of Ponca City, OK, Holly Wallen of Ponca City, OK, and Lane Ramsey and his wife Megan of Ponca City, OK; nine grandchildren, Britton Hurd and wife MacKenzie of Ponca City, OK, McKenna Hurd of Bartlesville, OK, Taylor Hurd, Ryleigh Wallen, Kinslee Wallen, Hunter Ramsey, Octavia Ramsey, and Oaklee Ramsey of Ponca City, OK, and a grandson on the way; two great-grandchildren, Braylen and Blakely Hurd of Ponca City, OK; and her siblings, Tobi Bricker and husband Doug of Shawnee, OK, and Cody Fulks and wife Hillary of Norman, OK. She is also survived by numerous nieces, nephews, extended family, and friends.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Charles and Dorothy; her grandparents, John and Ida Fulks; her grandparents, Raymond and Frances Smith; and her nephew, Tanner McPherson.

Pallbearers will be Lane Ramsey, Britt Hurd, Cory Bricker, Chad May, Charles McPherson, Larry Zimmerschied, and Randy Zimmerschied.

Family visitation will take place on Wednesday, January 7, 2026, at Dighton-Marler Funeral Home in Stillwater, OK, from 5:00–7:00 PM. The funeral home will also have open viewing from 10:00 AM–8:00 PM on Wednesday. Family and friends are welcome to attend and celebrate Kim’s life.

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01/05/2026

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01/03/2026

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01/02/2026

Richard Weis

Richard Joseph Weis

March 12, 1938 – December 30, 2025

God welcomed Richard Joseph Weis into eternal life in Heaven on December 30, 2025 at the age of 87.

Dick was born on March 12, 1938 in Montreal, Canada to Edward and Kathryn Weis. He later grew up in Brooklyn, NY where the foundation of his lifelong work ethic, discipline and faith were formed. After graduating from Archbishop Stepinac High School in 1956, he went on to complete his higher education at Kings College. A proud American, Dick served his country in the United States Army, including service during the Korean Conflict.

Dick met the love of his life, Donna, on a blind date in Washington, DC in the fall of 1961 while he was stationed there with the Army. They dated seriously for about a year before life took them in different directions when Donna transferred with her work for the Department of the Navy to San Francisco, CA. Remarkably, the two lost contact for five years. As fate would have it, they reconnected, and Dick and Donna were married on September 17, 1966 in Blossburg, PA at St. Mary’s Catholic Church. Their marriage was a testament to faith, commitment and enduring love.

Dick and Donna spent their early married years raising their young family in West Haverstraw, NY before Dick's professional career led them to Columbia, MO in the summer of 1979. Four years later, the family relocated again to Stillwater, OK where Dick continued his work until his retirement from Oklahoma State University in 2009. Throughout his career, including positions at institutions such as Albertus Magnus High School, the University of Missouri and Oklahoma State University, Dick was deeply committed to education, mentorship and service.

Second only to his fervent Catholic beliefs and faith in God, Dick was a loyal husband and devoted father. His family was the center of his world. He also found great joy in golf, fishing, gardening, reading, travel and maintaining a disciplined approach to health and fitness. Known for his wisdom and steady presence, Dick was a father figure to countless track and cross-country athletes from around the world, many of whom remained lifelong friends.

Dick is survived by his four children, Catherine Fagan and husband, Daren, Richard Joseph Weis, Jr. and wife, Kristin, Raymond Weis and wife, Lisa, and Elizabeth Nelson and husband, Christopher; six grandsons, Zachary and Luke Fagan, Jakob, Ryan and Garrett Weis, and Samuel Nelson; two brothers, Gregory Weis and wife, Nancy, and Gerard Weis and wife Caro, along with many extended family members and friends who will forever treasure his memory.

He was preceded in death by his wife, parents and brother, Edward Weis, Jr. and sister-in-law, Mary Lou.

Dick's life was marked by faith, integrity, service and love. His legacy lives on in the lives he touched, the family he cherished, and the values he modeled every day.

Dick’s viewing will be open from 4-8 p.m., Wednesday, January 7th, 2026 at Dighton Marler Funeral Home in Stillwater (5106 N Washington St.). Services will be held at 10:00 a.m., Thursday, January 8th, 2026 at St. Francis Xavier Catholic Church in Stillwater (711 N Country Club Rd). Interment will follow at Sunset Memorial Gardens in Stillwater (6500 S Perkins Rd.). Attendees are welcomed back to St. Francis for a funeral meal after the burial. Services are under the direction of Dighton Marler Funeral Home.

In lieu of flowers, Dick would be honored for donations to be made to The Albertus Magnus High School Cross-Country & Track Booster Club - Falcon Spiked Shoe Club, PO Box 211, Tappan, NY 10983.

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01/01/2026

Melvin Boyd Williams

Melvin Boyd Williams, affectionately known by his family and friends as Mel, was born December 23. 1932, in Morrison, Oklahoma to Leona and Earl Williams. They moved to Perry where he attended Perry High School.

Mel met the love of his life, Evelyn Rupp, at age 14. He saw her on the square and said, “I’m going to marry her!” Mel worked at the Perry movie theatre growing up. He joined the US Army and while he was in the service, Mel and Evelyn were married in Los Cruses, New Mexico. Shortly after their marriage, they had a son, Len. Four years later Kathy was born and soon after, the family moved to Sacramento, California. Mel worked for KXTV. Mel’s career was always in telecommunications. Mel was involved in Len’s life with quarter mile racing pontiacs. He really enjoyed those times.

He was also involved in Kathy’s life. He loved going to see her compete in cutting horse events. Unfortunately, Kathy had to sell her horse, Star Misty. A few years later, Mel bought her back with a foal by her side. The foal, named Stroke, is 28 years old. Kathy brought Stroke by Mel’s bedside in the house a few nights ago to say “goodbye.” Mel had several horses through the years that he loved. Mel had three grandsons whom he loved and attended many of their events through the years, including basketball and football.

Another special person in his life was Pam Carl, who loved and took care of Mel and was a dear friend.

Survivors include his son, Len Williams; daughter, Kathy Mowery McCoy; son-in-law, Mark McCoy; three grandsons: Hayden and Julia Mowery, Gavin and Cheyenne Mowery, and Sheldon and Ruby Mowery; and three great grandchildren: Marshall Layne Mowery, Mavery Jean Mowery and Tatum Joyce Mowery.

He was preceded in death by his wife, Evelyn Williams; brother, Marvin Williams; and mother and father, Leona and Earl Williams.

Visitation will be held on Monday, January 5, 2026, from 12-2pm at Dighton Marler Funeral Home in Perry, followed by funeral service at 2pm and interment at Zion Lutheran Cemetery at 3pm. Dighton Marler Funeral Home is entrusted with arrangements.

Memorial contributions can be made in Melvin’s name to the SPCA Association c/o Dighton Marler Funeral, P.O. Box 189, Perry, Oklahoma 73077.

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01/01/2026

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01/01/2026

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12/31/2025

Judy Ruby Rueger

Judy R. Rueger was born to Willard and Virginia Swan on August 13, 1938, in Midland, MI. She was born fifteen minutes after her twin, Jane. That she was pregnant with twins was unknown to Virginia. We don’t know which one was a surprise, and it doesn’t matter because what a great blessing those twins have been. They were the youngest of the family, behind Jeannette, Joe, and Celia.

Judy passed away at Stillwater Medical Center in Stillwater Oklahoma, after a short illness on December 29, 2025, at 10:09 a.m. She had been under the care of daughter Diane and family in their home, before moving to Westhaven Nursing Home in Stillwater in March of 2025. At Westhaven, Judy was well cared for by the staff. Judy had a sunny disposition and told all the workers that she loved them.

Early on the family resided in Coleman, MI. Coleman is where the twins went to kindergarten. When Judy and Jane were 6, the family moved to Saginaw and the twins went to Longfellow Elementary and Weber Jr. High. Judy graduated from Saginaw High School. After high school Judy and Jane were roommates while Judy worked at the Home Dairy cafeteria in Saginaw. A member of Faith Lutheran, Bridgeport, MI, Judy taught Sunday School.

Judy married Alvin Rueger on April 22, 1961, at Faith Lutheran in Bridgeport, MI. After the wedding Al and Judy drove all the way to Miami, FL for their honeymoon. They had been introduced to each other by Alvin’s cousin Herb Hammerbacher, who married Judy’s twin, Jane. Alvin and Judy lived on the top floor of Alvin’s parents’ home until they purchased the residence they spent their married life in at 11475 Wilkinson Rd. in Freeland, MI.

Judy joined St. John Lutheran, Amelith, which was Alvins home church. They worshiped together there and were members there until their deaths. To their union were born two daughters, Diane, and Valerie. Judy was the consummate homemaker, caring for Alvin, and the girls with love and dedication. Judy canned and preserved the bounty from Al’s garden. Judy and Alvin hosted many lively and joyous family gatherings at 11475 Wilkinson. They were an excellent team, admired and loved by family and many friends. They are dearly missed.

Judy traveled to be with her daughters at the births of each of the grandchildren. She was indispensable during those early days helping around the house and with the babies. Clothes were washed and folded and appeared in the drawers as if by magic. Judy and Al drove all over the country visiting relatives and their kids and grandkids. Al drove, Judy navigated.

Judy is survived by her sister Jane Bourdeau, (John), brother-in-law Jim Schnell, daughter Diane Wackler (John), Valerie Parrish (Steve), and grandchildren Jonathan Wackler, Megan Elder (Jake), Abigail Wackler, Timothy Parrish, (girlfriend Phoebe McGarrity), Joshua Parrish. Judy’s life intersected for six days with her great-granddaughter Hallie Ruth Elder born December 23, 2025. She is also survived by dearly loved nieces and nephews.

Judy was preceded in death by her husband Alvin of 63 years, her parents, sisters Celia Schnell and Jeannette Harper, and Jeannette’s husband Bob.

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