12/08/2025
Doing “The Work” — What It Really Looks Like
There’s so much talk these days about doing the work and taking quantum leaps… but what does any of that actually mean?
Here’s what I’ve come to understand:
We are always becoming.
Always unfolding.
Always arriving at a new edge of ourselves.
People hear “quantum” and imagine something huge and mystical, but in reality a quantum is one of the smallest measurements there is. The magic isn’t in the size — it’s in the fact that it happens in every moment, with every choice point, every single day.
For me, “doing the work” starts with awareness.
That moment when you suddenly notice a pattern, a behavior, a feeling, or a thought that you were once unconscious to. That’s the moment everything begins. Without that awareness, it’s like trying to shape a beautiful clay or glass vase without the material. Awareness is the raw ingredient.
From awareness comes the shift — the tiny, intentional choices you make to do something differently. Sometimes it’s big, sometimes it’s subtle, but it’s all part of becoming who you’re meant to be.
Recently, in conversations with my coaches (yes, I have coaches… because I don’t just teach the work, I practice it), something powerful happened. They reflected back to me a “disembodied pattern” of behavior, and for the first time ever, I actually caught it in real time.
And honestly? It felt like I had won a million dollars.
That one moment of recognition unlocked a whole new level of understanding. Suddenly so many things from my past — things I had questioned or wrestled with — clicked into place. Awareness gave me wisdom. Wisdom gave me healing.
Growth is a practice.
Awareness is a practice.
Just like yoga, just like medicine — it’s all a practice.
And like both, it has the capacity to heal deeply.
If you’re in your own season of becoming, know this:
It doesn’t have to be massive or dramatic.
Sometimes the most life-changing shifts begin with the smallest moment of awareness.
Keep going. You’re doing the work more than you realize. 💛
If you feel stuck in your process or in life and want to move forward in your journey, I am opening up 3 spots for those who would like support in getting unstuck and desire moving forward in doing their work.
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