04/29/2026
Doing the work to heal our wounded inner child(ren) is WORK! The work isn’t just in the recognition - that’s just a step in the process - it’s in the ways that we show up for all the parts of ourselves to acknowledge and validate what’s coming up, to gently and lovingly hold ourselves in that vulnerable space and show up the way we most needed someone to be with us back then.
When you think about re-parenting younger parts of yourself…
❓What ages and versions of you come up?
❓When do they need you most in the present?
❓How do you recognize them?
❓How do you BE with them?
❓What do they need to know about how life is currently different?
❓What do you need to do to love & protect them now that helps heal all of you?
✨ I generally start with (especially with the younger parts) “Sweet baby girl, can I hug you while you tell me about it?” For those teen and young adult years where I would have totally rejected the hug a simple “I see you and it’s okay to feel ____” helps.
✨ I let all parts of me know that not only are they safe enough because I will stand up for them and protect them from others, that I will also be accountable for how I be with them.
✨ Present me knows that not only it is safe enough to be seen, that I also deserve to be seen and heard.
✨ Present me trusts that showing up unapologetically in my authenticity is like sending up my squirrel signal (like a Bat signal but with ADHD 🤪) and that is how I create fulfillment for myself (also how I find my people).
✨ Present me wraps up all parts of myself in love, is the one who says I am allowed to rest, I am allowed to be happy, I am allowed to make mistakes and learn from them without beating myself up. That I am allowed to have needs, wants, and let people show up for me.