03/17/2026
We’d like to speak on a topic that needs to be discussed right now.
We currently have donor human milk available for families in our community who may need support feeding their babies.
Human milk can be an important bridge when milk supply is still building, when medical supplementation is needed, or when families are navigating complex feeding challenges. Access to human milk and wet nursing has supported babies and families for generations. Humans wouldn’t be here without it.
We also want to be transparent about something that doesn’t get talked about enough: there are risks with milk sharing. Even with safety precautions, risk can never be completely eliminated, and we do not pretend otherwise.
What we do instead is practice community *informed* milk sharing rather than informal community milk sharing.
Here’s what that looks like:
• Every donor completes and signs a disclosure covering health history, medications, lifestyle factors, and milk handling practices.
• That disclosure is provided to the receiving family with each brick of milk so parents can review the information themselves.
• Recipient families sign a consent acknowledging the potential risks of community milk sharing.
• Families who wish to further reduce risk can choose to use home pasteurization methods before feeding the milk.
It is also important to say out loud that disclosures rely on honesty. Donors could misrepresent their medical history or other information. That is a real limitation of community-based systems, and families deserve to know that when making their decision.
Families deserve transparency. They deserve information. And they deserve the autonomy to decide what is right for their baby.
It’s also important to remember that all infant feeding carries some level of risk. Formula feeding carries risks. Pumping carries risks. Direct breastfeeding even carries risks. Parenting always involves weighing information and making the best decision you can with the knowledge you have.
We conduct needs assessments and provide way more than just a brick of milk. We seek the root cause of the need. Sometimes milk supply is low. Sometimes the lactating parent needs a food resource themselves. Sometimes they need help with resources for past due bills so they don’t have to consider selling milk.
BUT HERE IS WHAT NEEDS TO BE SAID—One thing we will always be clear about: we NEVER buy or sell breast milk and we never EVER condone anyone else buying or selling breast milk.
Once money enters the equation, the risks increase significantly. Purchased milk has been found to be diluted, contaminated, improperly stored, or even mixed with non-human milk. When financial incentive is involved, exploitation can follow and safety can become secondary. Here is where the real risk lies.
We deeply respect the time, energy, and labor it takes to produce milk. The value of that work is immense. But mothers should never be pushed into a place of desperation where selling their milk becomes a necessity in order to survive. That’s our society’s fault. Change is needed!
Milk sharing and wet nursing were critical to the survival of the human race long before formula, pumps, or modern systems existed — and in most places, including Appalachia, it still is.
At its core, community milk sharing is about care, trust, and nourishment. When milk is given and received with love, the intention is simple: to help a baby be fed.
Risks? Yes.
But parents are capable adults who deserve honest information and the freedom to decide how they feed their child without financial exploitation on either end.
If your family needs donor milk right now, or if you are producing extra milk and would like to donate, reach out to us. We’re here to help families connect safely, thoughtfully, and with full transparency. But PLEASE don’t buy milk. Don’t sell it either. If you need help or resources, contact us. You aren’t alone, but buying and/or selling milk isn’t the way.🤍