01/06/2026
Union of one being and another requires such deep dedication and willingness.
My greatest teacher in this life is Ryan — our relationship.
It is where I am challenged the most.
One of my coping mechanisms since I was very little was to run away when things got too hard, too demanding, too real, or too uncomfortable.
I’m learning to not do this anymore — in my relationship with him, myself, and all of my other deeply meaningful relationships.
Commitment is such a deeply beautiful expander.
To commit is to say, “I’m here for it all and I’m not going anywhere; no matter how tough.”
There is no deeper of a showing of love than this — whether it’s for yourself or a loved one.
It requires honest communication, bravery, and the release of people pleasing — honoring your needs and speaking them. Knowing that, not only do they have a place at the table, but they are the foundation, the legs, of the damn table.
