11/14/2025
Model the kind of behavior you want to see from him/her. When we’re frustrated with our spouse, it’s natural to want to unplug from them, nag them or criticize them, but none of those tactics ever seem to work. This step is a natural progression from the first point about giving love even when it isn’t immediately reciprocated. Do for him/her what you’d like to see done in return. Encourage more than you criticize.