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10/24/2025

There’s a reason narcissists don’t learn from their mistakes, and the Bible explains it perfectly.

Narcissistic people refuse to admit when they’re wrong. Their fruit, their thoughts, words, and behavior, reveals what’s really in their hearts.

Luke 6:43-44 says, “No good tree bears bad fruit, nor does a bad tree bear good fruit.”

That’s why their patterns don’t change. Narcissists are predictable, critical, controlling, and unwilling to grow, while wise people bear the fruit of humility, repentance, and peace.

In this podcast clip, I share what the Bible says about identifying the fruit of a foolish, narcissistic person and how to protect your peace through wisdom and discernment.

If you’ve been questioning whether the person in your life will ever change, this message will give you clarity — and truth that sets you free.

10/23/2025

When interacting with a narcissist, remember these 5 important “Do nots”:

• Do not allow him to dominate the discussion.
• Do not allow him to derail the conversation.
• Do not allow him to deflect when his is asked a direct question.
• Do not respond to his emotional darts no matter how tempted you are.
• Do not show your emotions (narcissists will only weaponize your articulated feelings).

Narcissists do not care about your needs or feelings. They care about controlling things and getting what they want. Stay calm and focused. Set a goal for each of your conversations. Consider your conversation a huge success if you stayed calm and articulated what you intended, regardless of whether the narcissist responded like a crazy person.

“The one who has knowledge uses words with restraint, and whoever has understanding is even-tempered” (Proverbs 17:27).

“Fools show their annoyance at once, but the prudent overlook an insult” (Proverbs 12:16).

10/22/2025

If a narcissist has made you feel afraid, reground yourself in Truth by telling God what you will do and telling yourself what you will not do.

For example,
God, this is what I will do: “When I am afraid, I will put my trust in you” (Psalm 56:3).

This is what I will not do: “The LORD is with me; I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me?” (Psalm 118:6).

10/21/2025

If you’ve ever wondered why God allows a narcissist to stay in your life, take heart — He sees your heartbreak, your exhaustion, and your prayers for change.

Scripture tells us the truth about foolish and harmful people:

“He who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm.”
— Proverbs 13:20

A foolish narcissist is dangerous. They cause emotional pain, confusion, and chaos in the lives of those who love them. But God does not call you to live in constant harm, fear, or turmoil.

Sometimes obedience means creating distance. Guard your heart. Detach emotionally. And if needed, separate physically.
Because God’s will is not for you to be endlessly wounded by someone else’s sin — it’s for you to walk in peace, wisdom, and freedom.

If this message speaks to you, listen to my full podcast Help! I Have a Narcissist in My Life or visit slade-waggonercounselingservices.com for biblical tools and resources to help you heal.

10/20/2025

If you’ve ever been falsely accused of being a narcissist, especially by someone who actually is one, this message is for you. Narcissists often gaslight, projecting their own toxic traits onto you so that you start doubting your worth, your sanity, and your faith.

Here are 9 signs you are not the narcissist:

1. You take ownership, apologize, and make amends when you hurt someone.
2. You feel genuine empathy and compassion for others.
3. You’re open to correction and willing to be wrong.
4. You seek self-awareness and spiritual growth.
5. You value emotional closeness and authentic connection.
6. You’re the same person in private and in public.
7. You can make sacrifices for others without resentment.
8. You handle feedback with grace, not rage.
9. You know you’re not entitled—you’re grateful.

If you’ve been manipulated into believing you’re the narcissist, that’s spiritual and emotional abuse. It’s projection. It’s gaslighting.

You are not crazy. You are not broken.
You are precious, and God is still writing your redemption story.

For more biblical guidance and truth-based healing, visit slade-waggonercounselingservices.com or listen to my podcast Help! I Have a Narcissist in My Life.

10/19/2025

Emotional abuse leaves deep wounds that many people don’t recognize until years later.
Here are 12 signs that someone has been emotionally abused:

1. Their emotions depend on others’ emotions
2. They struggle to make decisions
3. They can’t identify their likes or needs
4. They people-please and lack boundaries
5. They feel guilty for saying no
6. They fix other people’s problems
7. They neglect self-care
8. They live in guilt and self-doubt
9. They over-empathize and absorb others’ emotions
10. They enable and over-give in relationships
11. They don’t understand their God-given worth
12. They carry shame and feel “not enough”

If you’ve experienced emotional abuse from a narcissist or controlling partner, please know this: you can heal.
God sees your pain, and He promises, “Do not fear, for I will help you” (Isaiah 41:13).

Through faith-based counseling, you can rediscover your voice, rebuild your self-worth, and live free from toxic cycles.
Your healing begins with truth, boundaries, and the belief that your value comes from God—not from anyone else’s approval.

For more encouragement and recovery tools, visit slade-waggonercounselingservices.com or listen to Help! I Have a Narcissist in My Life podcast.

10/16/2025

How to spot a narcissist 👇

Narcissists show their true colors in patterns, not just moments.

You can learn to spot them by recognizing what I call the 3 T’s of narcissistic behavior:

Toddler — They throw temper tantrums when things don’t go their way.

Teenager — Entitled, self-centered, and unwilling to take responsibility.

Terrorist — They control others through fear, obligation, and guilt.

Here’s what to look for in a narcissist:

• Rage and intimidation when confronted
• Condescending sarcasm and subtle criticism
• Blame-shifting and gaslighting to avoid accountability
• Stonewalling and silent treatments to punish you
• Breadcrumbing — giving small bits of attention to keep control
• Scapegoating, gossip, and triangulation to turn others against you

These patterns aren’t random, they’re strategic.
But once you recognize them, you can protect yourself emotionally, spiritually, and mentally.

Truth: You can’t change a narcissist, but you can learn to stop absorbing their chaos.

Through biblical truth and faith-based boundaries, you can rebuild your peace and your strength.

🎧 For a deeper dive, listen to my podcast Help! I Have a Narcissist in My Life or grab my book Don’t Let Their Crazy Make You Crazy at slade-waggonercounselingservices.com.

10/15/2025

I’m excited to share some special news with you.

This Thursday, October 16th at 5 PM EST, I’ll be a guest on In the Market with Janet Parshall on Moody Radio, and I’d love for you to join me live!

We’ll be diving into an important and deeply personal topic:
how to recognize narcissistic behavior, protect your peace, and stay anchored in God’s truth when dealing with toxic or emotionally abusive people.

If you or someone you love has struggled with confusion, guilt, or fear in a relationship marked by control and manipulation, this conversation will bring both clarity and hope.

👉 You can listen live on your local Moody Radio Station or online 👇
https://www.moodyradio.org/programs/in-the-market-with-janet-parshall/

I’d be honored to have you tune in, and please share this with a friend who might need encouragement or biblical insight in this area.

Thank you for being part of this growing community of faith, truth, and healing.

10/15/2025

The 5 things a narcissist is “sorry” for 👇

If you’ve ever heard a narcissist say, “I’m sorry,” but felt no real change afterward, this is why.

Narcissists aren’t sorry for what they did to you, they’re sorry for how it affects them.

Here’s what their “apology” really means:

1️⃣ Sorry they got caught.
2️⃣ Sorry you won’t drop your boundaries.
3️⃣ Sorry they’re facing consequences.
4️⃣ Sorry they have to hear about your pain.
5️⃣ Sorry their reputation might take a hit.

This is not godly sorrow. It’s self-sorrow.
A narcissist’s version of repentance is all about removing their discomfort, not restoring the relationship or honoring God.

But here’s the truth, you don’t have to settle for a counterfeit sorry.

God calls you to walk in truth and peace, not manipulation and confusion.

“Do not give to dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs…” — Matthew 7:6

Don’t let a narcissist’s fake apology pull you back into the cycle of chaos.

Stand firm, stay prayerful, and trust that real repentance produces change, not excuses.

10/12/2025

The 3 parts of a narcissistic spouse you need to recognize

If you’re married to a narcissist, you already know, they’re not the same person in private as they are in public.

Part 1: The Mask

This is the false self the narc shows the world, charming, helpful, even “spiritual.” Everyone thinks you’re lucky to have them… but behind closed doors, it’s a different story.

Part 2: The Controller

This is who you see at home. The silent treatments. The subtle digs. The constant walking on eggshells just to keep the peace.

Part 3: The Victim

When you finally speak up, the narcissist will twist it, and suddenly they’re the one who’s been wronged, and you’re the villain.

You’re left feeling guilty, confused, and hopeless.

But you’re not crazy. You’re not alone. And you’re not powerless.

Once you accept that the narcissist lives a compartmentalized life, you can stop trying to fix them, and start focusing on your healing.

Through counseling, biblical truth, and practical tools, you can learn how to detach, set healthy boundaries, and rebuild your peace.

10/12/2025

Have you ever been falsely accused by a narcissist?

If so, you already know how disorienting it feels. Narcissists use false accusations, gaslighting, and projection to throw you off balance, because when you start defending yourself, you’re no longer confronting their bad behavior.

They’ll say things like “Stop yelling at me!” or “You’re condemning me!” even when you’re calm and collected.
It’s not a misunderstanding, it’s a manipulation tactic.

Here’s what to do instead:

When the narcissist lies or twists your words, don’t take the bait. Don’t defend yourself.

Stay calm, take a deep breath, and remove yourself from the conversation if needed.

You don’t owe a narcissist a defense, you owe yourself peace.

Remember: the goal of a narcissist is to control the narrative.
Your goal is to stay anchored in truth, clarity, and God’s wisdom, not their chaos.

💬 Have you experienced this kind of false accusation before? Share “yes” in the comments, you’re not alone.

10/10/2025

Narcissists, as well as the Enemy of our souls, want us to believe we “can’t” in every area of our lives.

If we believe we “can’t” do things, we are silenced and shut down. Resist believing in narcissistic projections and the wicked lie of “I can’t.” If your mind is saying “I can’t,” respond with “Shut up Satan. God says I can.”

This is the Truth of Philippians 4:13: “I can do all this through him who gives me strength.”

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