03/29/2026
Your body adapts to what you do with it the most.
Same as our mind.
Keep doom scrolling, and guess what?
My daughter does something she calls “hope scrolling” and it’s exactly as it sounds.
We need to take accountability for our algorithms.
We build them ourselves, brick by brick.
If you’re feeling overwhelmed, you can unfollow the pages and people that post things you can get from media sources ON YOUR TERMS.
Meaning… set aside a specific time in your day or play catch-up at some point on your time off or days off and go in. And not a time of day you’re feeling particularly squeezed.
Maybe even set a timer!
Don’t go in without an escape plan.
That how we get sucked up and sucked in.
It’s just like planning a vacation or road trip-we need to plan.
Same for safely scrolling.
Plan for the pages you want to see, that bring joy to your soul and over time, you’ll be seeing more recipes, kitties & puppies, crocheting, scientific discoveries-what ever you fancy. Whatever your jam.
Just like your home…
If you built your algo, you can re-build it, too! At the very least-build an extension.
If you must keep your doom & gloom feed,try a balance seeking out pages on things that make you happy-and overtime your algo will insert the joyful clips in between your need to “stay informed”.
No need to ruminate every minute of every day on the fires we alone can not extinguish.
Making changes is not ignoring what’s happening around us, we’re protecting our peace so we can function and think clearly.
It’s taking charge of what enters into your most sacred of spaces.
We are better equipt to put out little fires in our own lives if we discern what is logistically and realistically within our control and, what isn’t.
Otherwise we’re no good to anyone, let alone ourselves.
And post. Add positivity into the word.
A flower. A tree. A squirrel, a bird, your pet.
Your morning coffee that you sat with quietly that hit just right.
And finally, gratitude.
What you are grateful for in this moment.
Breath.
Someone in your past that helped form who you are today.
The kind word from a stranger at the supermarket.
Your health.
Something… the car started. Food in the fridge. Anything.
Start hope scrolling your inner dialogue.
Expose yourself to hope.
We’d like to think the world is watching out for us, but in reality, we are doing the watching these days and it’s too great a burden to shoulder in isolation of our own thoughts.
The Universe will find balance, yes I believe this but, it’s up to us to seek balance within.
Participate in your own peace.
Never too late to start to change course.
Never too late to give other perspectives a go.
You might surprise yourself.
And deep gratitude to my daughter Katia for helping me see things again for the first time with a fresh perspective.