10/31/2025
This season of healing has been about pleasure and fun.
I’ve had to put aside the constant analysis. All the deep dives into trauma, behaviors, and thought patterns. During all the uncertainty, physical pain, and fear I’ve been experiencing, I’ve been learning to soften. To be gentle. To be okay with not being perfect.
Not being perfect at breaking generational cycles.
Not being perfect at setting boundaries.
Not being perfect at communicating clearly.
Not being perfect in my work.
Not being perfect in how I care for my body, what I eat or how I move.
I’ve been practicing letting it all go so I can feel safe and calm in my body instead of crippled with anxiety and panic.
A lot of that has come through play, nature, and curiosity. It’s looked like dressing up, exploring new shops, saying yes to holiday festivities, and soaking in this beautiful, energizing weather. I’ve been so incredibly grateful for the shift in weather!
I wasn’t planning to dress up this year, but while thrifting I found the perfect pieces and couldn’t resist for a Halloween event I planned to go to last night. I had so much fun dressing up and admiring the spooky museum we went to. I woke up today feeling light, happy, and inspired.
So if you need to hear this too, this is for you: it doesn’t always have to be about the hard work of healing. There’s just as much medicine in the light and playful moments, too.
Right now, I need that light, playful, healing medicine. What a perfect day for everyone to recieve that.
friends 🎃✨