Safe Harbor Counseling Center

Safe Harbor Counseling Center A professional counseling center in Temecula, CA dedicated to providing a harbor of refuge and enco

💙❤️Join Abe and Elaine as they dive into Gottman’s final principle for making marriage work: Shared Meaning. This episod...
11/07/2025

💙❤️Join Abe and Elaine as they dive into Gottman’s final principle for making marriage work: Shared Meaning. This episode explores what your marriage stands for ….beyond chores, communication, or conflict.

They’ll talk about how every couple needs to define the philosophy of their marriage:
• What do we value?
• What traditions matter to us?
• How do we see parenting, politics, faith, or family roles?
• What are the small daily rituals that make us “us”?

From tiny moments like Sunday morning routines to the big beliefs that guide your life, shared meaning is what turns a relationship into a legacy.

Tune in as Abe and Elaine unpack how couples can discover, define, and intentionally build their shared story…together.❤️💙 link to podcast on spotify: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3ITcKDOv8MYEs0aps0JUcp?si=Dx7W7k6rRpG7IgCN4kYm3Q

10/26/2025

💙⚓️Beautiful Marriage Retreat hosted by Joni and Friends at South Coast Winery. Safe Harbor Counseling Center is always honored to participate and help these amazing couples 🙏🏻strengthen marriages⚓️💙

💙⚓️Safe Harbor Counseling Center is so honored to guest speak at the Joni and Friends Marriage Getaway this weekend at S...
10/24/2025

💙⚓️Safe Harbor Counseling Center is so honored to guest speak at the Joni and Friends Marriage Getaway this weekend at South Coast Winery in Temecula, CA 💙⚓️

⚓️💙We are so pleased to ANNOUNCE that our very own staff member Jennifer Neri PASSED her board exams 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🎉🎉🎉and is now...
10/23/2025

⚓️💙We are so pleased to ANNOUNCE that our very own staff member Jennifer Neri PASSED her board exams 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🎉🎉🎉and is now a LICENSED Professional Clinical Counselor! This is a huge feat that takes many years of education! It also requires executing thousands of psychotherapy hours, supervision hours, training hours, treatment planning and not to mention YEARS of studying!! We are proud of you Jennifer! We are blessed and honored to have you as part of the Safe Harbor team!!💙⚓️To book with Jennifer please call 951-252-8411 # 3004💙⚓️

💙⚓️Register soon for the Marriage Retreat @ Paradise Point in San Diego! Safe harbor is so honored to take part in this ...
10/10/2025

💙⚓️Register soon for the Marriage Retreat @ Paradise Point in San Diego! Safe harbor is so honored to take part in this amazing weekend where couples can connect, relax, learn, meet others and enrich their marriages!! 💙⚓️Register at https://www.rancho.tv/events

💙⚓️In this lovely story a panicked, lost turtle was found on the side of the road …and guided home to feel safe again. T...
09/19/2025

💙⚓️In this lovely story a panicked, lost turtle was found on the side of the road …and guided home to feel safe again. The client and I discussed how we all feel lost and rattled sometimes. How we can also recognize when someone else feels lost. We can feel empathy and to guide them back to safety. I was moved by this kiddo’s story of kindness and providing safety to others. What a powerful lesson for this world today. Maybe we all should keep an eye out for those feeling lost (Permission given to post) Sand Tray Therapy is a Jungian approach that provides clients with a variety of figures that allows them to bring what is on their hearts and minds to life. When we can use a concrete symbol to capture feelings and core beliefs it becomes a beautiful way to organize our thoughts. 💙⚓️

💙⚓️Ever lose it with your teen?  Remind your self to “Respond don’t React” in those tough convos with your teens! This n...
09/04/2025

💙⚓️Ever lose it with your teen? Remind your self to “Respond don’t React” in those tough convos with your teens! This not only allows you to speak from a clear logical headspace…it also models self regulation to your teen. Let them see you take a breath or say give me a second here so I can respond and not just react. Let them know I don’t want to lash out or say something I don’t mean. If you make a mistake and react? Take ownership and show them how to apologize and ask to start again. Our teens learn healthy conflict resolution, relationship management, and emotional regulation from us first! Hang in there mom and dad! We get it! Need help? Give us a call 951-252-8411

💙⚓️Children need to PLAY. 🧸🪁🪀They process the world around them through their themes in play. It is vital to their emoti...
08/30/2025

💙⚓️Children need to PLAY. 🧸🪁🪀They process the world around them through their themes in play. It is vital to their emotional well-being. Make sure your child has time to play! Did you know we offer play therapy at Safe Harbor? Call today for an appointment. 951-252-8411

08/21/2025

💙⚓️Share with any family whose kiddo is struggling and dm me your email if you would like the full article. Want a parent consultation session? Call us at 951-252-8411 for support. Happy Back to School!

💙⚓️FREE Couples Bible Study!  Created for Connection:Seven Transformative Conversations for CouplesFacilitated by Elaine...
08/15/2025

💙⚓️FREE Couples Bible Study! Created for Connection:Seven Transformative Conversations for Couples
Facilitated by Elaine M. Romero, LMFT
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist & Clinical Director of Safe Harbor Counseling Center

Wednesday nights, 6:30-8 Rancho Church West Campus, room # TBD. Starts September 3rd!

Join Elaine for an engaging, faith-based couples class using the book Created for Connection by Dr. Sue Johnson & Kenneth Sanderfer. This class will take you on an emotionally rich and biblically grounded journey designed to strengthen your bond and deepen your love. Built on the proven principles of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), this class will guide couples through seven transformative conversations that help identify emotional patterns, heal attachment wounds, and foster greater closeness. With scripture woven throughout, we’ll explore how God designed us for connection—not just with Him, but with each other. Whether you’re newly married, remarried, or seeking a tune-up for your relationship, this group offers a safe, supportive space to grow in emotional responsiveness, grace, and lasting intimacy. To register go to rancho.tv/groups Look for the class Created for Connections.

💙❤️Tired of having the SAME fight over and over again?? Tune in as Abe and Elaine discuss Gottman Principle  #6 Overcomi...
08/11/2025

💙❤️Tired of having the SAME fight over and over again?? Tune in as Abe and Elaine discuss Gottman Principle #6 Overcoming Gridlock. This episode covers:
🎯 Why 69% of conflicts in marriage are perpetual
🎯 How to uncover the dreams hiding under the drama
🎯 The 4 Gottman steps to get unstuck (without selling your soul to the thermostat war)
🎯 A real-life example from one couple

Whether it’s in-laws, money, chores, or Christmas plans, you can move from stuck to connected and compromise… even if you never totally agree.

🎧 Listen now and find out how to turn “we’ll never agree” into “we actually understand each other.” Link to podcast https://open.spotify.com/episode/07YR3tiXHtP7D8fyjaVhdP?si=DvDbXjwER82ZwzIEpBmqbg

Please call for marriage counseling 951-252-8411 and if your relationship suffers from Domestic Violence call 1-800- 799- 7233.

07/22/2025

⚓️💙At Safe Harbor Counseling center we don’t just talk to your child and teens about emotions we explore emotions through all types of modalities. Play therapy, art therapy and even Sand Tray Therapy. After all…Learning about our emotions and ourselves should be an enjoyable and calming experience. Therapy heals. 💙⚓️ 951-252-8411

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Temecula, CA
92592

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Monday 9am - 7pm
Tuesday 9am - 7pm
Wednesday 9am - 7pm
Thursday 9am - 7pm
Friday 9am - 7pm

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