12/07/2025
For many the holidays are not cheerful or joyous. It can be a very lonely time of year for those that have lost a loved one, are far from family or have no one to be with during the holiday season. The holidays can be a harsh reminder of the loneliness being felt.
If you are feeling alone and isolated take some time to ground yourself. Take a walk, feel the ground under your feet, look at the sky, the clouds, listen to the sounds. Concentrate on your breathing, breath in through your nose for a count of five, hold for a count of five, exhale through your mouth for a count of five and hold for a count of five (box breathing). Be aware if you are cold, warm, cold fingers and toes. Be aware of the surroundings. Take your time, don’t rush. If you find something beautiful in your surroundings, in yourself, you’re grounded.
...Being bombarded with reminders everywhere you go and every sense is overloaded with advertisers telling us how we "should" be feeling. There is nothing wrong with not feeling or having the holiday spirit. Its impossible to avoid all the triggers......
If you know someone struggling Don’t be offended if you reach out with an invitation for shopping, parties or family meals and are turned down. For those suffering, seeing people celebrating can be even more isolating and a reminder of their pain.
You can offer your time to sit and talk, to share a meal in a non festive setting or be creative in a non-festive way of connecting.
The greatest gift you can give someone is your time.
Asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness. Call or text 988 before the crisis to learn what resources are available or if you are feeling overwhelmed and just need to talk.