08/03/2025
Sunday Sessions with Brandon King, LPC
Today’s topic:
Why Role Models Matter for Boys of Color—
From a therapist’s point of view, having men of color as role models for young boys offers deep psychological and emotional benefits that go far beyond surface-level inspiration.
Here’s why it matters:
1. Representation Builds Self-Worth
When young boys of color see men who look like them in roles of leadership, compassion, strength, and success, it affirms their own potential. It tells them, "I can be that, too." This boosts self-esteem and helps combat the internalized messages of inferiority or limitation that many boys of color are exposed to.
2. Modeling Emotional Health
Role models who openly express emotions, talk about mental health, or seek therapy can redefine what it means to be “strong.” It shows young boys that vulnerability is not weakness—it’s human. This can reduce stigma and encourage healthier emotional coping from an early age.
3. Breaking Harmful Stereotypes
Too often, media and society portray men of color through narrow, often negative lenses. When young boys witness men of color as caregivers, professionals, mentors, or advocates, it broadens their understanding of masculinity and identity. It gives them permission to define themselves outside of limiting narratives.
4. Providing Safe Guidance
Boys of color often face unique systemic challenges—racism, bias, cultural expectations, and social pressures. Role models who have navigated these same challenges offer relatable guidance and culturally attuned support that others may not be able to provide.
5. Inspiring Purpose and Direction
Whether it’s through a teacher, coach, uncle, community leader, or therapist, a positive male role model can ignite a young boy’s sense of direction, discipline, and purpose. That relationship may be the difference between feeling lost and feeling seen.
My Final Thoughts—
As a therapist, I’ve seen firsthand how powerful it is when young boys of color connect with men who reflect them—not just in appearance, but in lived experience. It plants a seed of possibility, healing, and hope.
