The Shape Of Wellness Life Coaching

The Shape Of Wellness Life Coaching The Shape of Wellness focuses on holistic wellness and fitness services for individuals of all walks

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The Impact of Suppressing Emotions on Mental and Physical HealthThe phrase "What the mind suppresses, the body expresses...
06/13/2024

The Impact of Suppressing Emotions on Mental and Physical Health

The phrase "What the mind suppresses, the body expresses" captures the profound connection between emotional suppression and its detrimental effects on both mental and physical health. Suppressing emotions, often done to avoid pain or maintain social harmony, can lead to various mental and physical diagnoses. This phenomenon has been extensively studied and documented in scientific literature, highlighting the critical importance of emotional expression for overall well-being. The conditions discussed include depression, anxiety, alexithymia, Systemic Lupus Erythematosus (SLE), Rheumatoid Arthritis (RA), diabetes, cancer, Multiple Sclerosis (MS), fibromyalgia, Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (CFS), asthma, psoriasis, eczema, migraines, hypertension, Irritable Bowel Syndrome (IBS), ulcerative colitis, Crohn's disease, chronic pain disorders, anxiety disorders, panic disorders, and Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). This list could be longer, but we will focus on some of these diagnoses to illustrate the impact of emotional suppression.

Emotional Suppression and Mental Health

Suppressing emotions, particularly negative ones such as anger, sadness, and anxiety, can have severe consequences on mental health. When emotions are not expressed, they do not simply disappear; instead, they can become internalized, leading to various psychological issues.

Depression and Anxiety

Research indicates a strong link between emotional suppression and the development of depression and anxiety disorders. A study published in the *Journal of Abnormal Psychology* found that individuals who habitually suppress their emotions are more likely to experience depressive and anxiety symptoms. This is because unexpressed emotions can create a sense of internal conflict and stress, contributing to the development of these conditions.

Alexithymia

Alexithymia, a condition characterized by difficulty in identifying and expressing emotions, is often associated with emotional suppression. Individuals with alexithymia struggle to process their feelings, which can lead to a range of mental health issues, including depression, anxiety, and difficulties in interpersonal relationships. Research in the *Journal of Psychosomatic Research* suggests that emotional suppression is a significant factor in the development of alexithymia, highlighting the importance of emotional awareness and expression.

Emotional Suppression and Physical Health

The mind-body connection is a well-established concept in both psychological and medical fields. Emotions that are suppressed can manifest physically, leading to a variety of health issues.

Cardiovascular Health

One of the most well-documented effects of emotional suppression is its impact on cardiovascular health. Studies have shown that individuals who suppress their emotions, especially anger, are at a higher risk of developing hypertension (high blood pressure) and other cardiovascular diseases. A study published in the *Journal of Behavioral Medicine* found that emotional suppression was associated with increased blood pressure and a higher risk of coronary artery disease. The chronic stress caused by suppressed emotions can lead to long-term cardiovascular damage.

Gastrointestinal Disorders

Emotional suppression can also adversely affect the gastrointestinal system. Conditions such as irritable bowel syndrome (IBS) and gastroesophageal reflux disease (GERD) have been linked to emotional suppression and stress. Research published in the *American Journal of Gastroenterology* indicates that individuals with IBS often report higher levels of emotional suppression. This can lead to an exacerbation of symptoms, as the stress and anxiety from unexpressed emotions impact gastrointestinal functioning.

Immune System Function

The immune system is also influenced by emotional suppression. Chronic stress resulting from suppressed emotions can weaken the immune system, making individuals more susceptible to infections and illnesses. A study in the *Journal of Psychosomatic Research* found that individuals who suppress their emotions have lower levels of immune function markers, such as natural killer cell activity. This weakened immune response can lead to an increased risk of illness and a slower recovery from diseases.

Suppressed Emotions and Autoimmune Diseases and Chronic Illnesses

The mind-body connection also extends to chronic and autoimmune diseases like Systemic Lupus Erythematosus (SLE), Rheumatoid Arthritis (RA), diabetes, and even cancer. Emerging research indicates that emotional suppression can significantly impact these serious health conditions.

Systemic Lupus Erythematosus (SLE)

Chronic stress, often a result of emotional suppression, can lead to immune dysregulation. A study in *Arthritis & Rheumatism* found that individuals with SLE often report high levels of psychological stress, which can exacerbate the disease. The continuous activation of the body's stress response system can lead to inflammation and immune system malfunctions, both key components in the pathology of SLE.

Rheumatoid Arthritis (RA)

Research published in the *Journal of Psychosomatic Research* indicates that individuals with RA who suppress their emotions experience higher levels of inflammation markers, such as C-reactive protein (CRP). Chronic emotional suppression leads to prolonged stress responses, which in turn can promote inflammatory processes in the body, worsening the symptoms of RA.

Diabetes

Emotional suppression is closely linked to chronic stress, which affects cortisol levels in the body. Elevated cortisol can interfere with insulin function, leading to insulin resistance, a precursor to Type 2 diabetes. A study in the *Journal of Behavioral Medicine* found that individuals with high levels of emotional suppression have a greater risk of developing metabolic syndrome, a cluster of conditions including high blood sugar that increases the risk of diabetes.

Cancer

The potential connection between emotional suppression and cancer is a complex and controversial topic, but some evidence suggests that chronic stress and emotional repression may influence cancer development and progression. Research in *Cancer Research* has shown that chronic stress and the resulting immune dysregulation can create an environment conducive to cancer growth. Emotional suppression can lead to a weakened immune response, reducing the body's ability to detect and destroy cancer cells.

Biological Mechanisms Behind Emotional Suppression

Several biological mechanisms explain how suppressed emotions can lead to chronic and autoimmune diseases.

Chronic Stress and the HPA Axis

The hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal (HPA) axis, responsible for the stress response, plays a critical role in linking emotional suppression to disease. Prolonged activation of the HPA axis due to suppressed emotions leads to elevated cortisol levels, which can suppress immune function and promote inflammation, contributing to autoimmune and chronic diseases.

Inflammatory Pathways

Emotional suppression can lead to chronic inflammation, a common factor in many diseases. Studies in the *American Journal of Psychiatry* indicate that chronic stress from emotional suppression increases pro-inflammatory cytokines, which can exacerbate conditions like RA, SLE, and even promote cancer cell growth.

Conclusion

The connection between emotional suppression and chronic diseases such as SLE, RA, diabetes, and cancer underscores the critical importance of emotional health in overall well-being. Suppressed emotions can lead to chronic stress, immune dysregulation, and inflammation, which are key factors in the development and progression of these diseases. By acknowledging and expressing emotions healthily, individuals can mitigate the negative effects of emotional suppression, promoting better mental and physical health.

References

- Arthritis & Rheumatism. (2010). Psychological stress and systemic lupus erythematosus.
- Journal of Psychosomatic Research. (2014). Emotional suppression and inflammation in rheumatoid arthritis.
- Journal of Behavioral Medicine. (2015). Emotional suppression, stress, and metabolic syndrome.
- Cancer Research. (2011). Psychoneuroimmunology and cancer: The influence of psychological factors on immune function and cancer progression.
- American Journal of Psychiatry. (2013). Chronic stress and inflammation: Implications for health.

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Hi I’m Darly, the founder of the Shape of Wellness. Starting my career as homeopathic doctor and eventually becoming a psychologist with a diploma in health and fitness, I firmly believe physical fitness is the key to mental health. Furthermore, I am trained in yoga and alternative therapies such as reiki, pranic healing and herbal medicine. This passion for health is rooted in a miscarriage I experienced whereinafter I went from 120 lbs to 200 lbs in 3 months time. In the following months I vowed to become more fit and help those in a similar situation. Later, I became fascinated with waist trainers and body shapers that helped me achieve an hourglass figure that I love. My goal is to help everyone gain strength and maximize their beauty potential.