02/18/2026
Offline trantrums help us release suppressed anger. Do this exercise to help discharge yours. 🧯🔥
Ladies, revisit all the scenarios you felt grief and anger from all ages of your life. Scream and rage at those people in your head, all the things you never said. All the anger you kept quiet about to keep the peace, all the things you swallowed because it was more appropriate and socially acceptable, or less harmful to others, all the boundaries crossed. This exercise helps release it all on a deeper level. Call them out on their behavior, call them out on their lack of empathy and consciousness for others. Not because you are perfect, but because it was suppressed and suppression creates disease. Not for vengeance, for release of the anger from your womb, your liver, your shoulders. This is the feminine rage that is talked about, the pent up fire that settled in your body when there was nowhere for it to go.
How many generations of feminine rage are you holding in your cells? I dare you to look at it, revisit it, discharge it. It's free. There is no cost, just a quiet space and 30 minutes of going inward to do the work. No appointments needed, no outsourcing your healing to someone who may not understand or have experienced it. Nothing to lose.
Perimenopause, menopausal and menstrual symptoms are always packaged up in our society as hormonal shifts, which are only a fragment of what is happening and not the root issue. What brews is all the times you said something and were ignored, every time you said No and it was ignored, every time you stayed quiet, every time your feelings were dismissed, every time you spoke and they cut you off. All the times you needed a hug, presence, empathy, for your pain to be acknowledged and seen, all the self-abandonment making sure people around you were happy because that meant safety.
Buried shadow emotions seep into the organs and systems waiting for the opportunity when your kids are independent enough for you to do self-care, when you have more time to prioritize your inner child and allow her to rage and grieve all the times she didn't allow herself to feel it. She numbed it out and shoved it down to keep going, splits in the psyche were created to survive. This is why it's mistaken for a hormonal shift, there was no time previously in the ego-driven, external-based phase of life. The HRT and harmaceuticals they pass out may help temporarily relieve your symptoms (or not), but ignoring the root issue just forces it to show up elsewhere in the body begging for your attention. When ignored it can manifest into more alarming disease symptoms hoping to wake you up to do the hard work, the eternal work of the soul. We do this deep work for our soul, ancestors, our families, our children, our grandchildren, and our life partners.