02/12/2025
I’m wayyyy behind on birth announcements from last year but in preparing my taxes I am reminded of all of the beautiful families I had the pleasure of serving last year.
This is Cassian. He is his mom’s first baby.
All too often I hear the notion that first time mothers “should” birth in the hospital since they’ve never experienced birth before…”better safe than sorry”. I hate this so much! Our first births can have the potential to impact our future pregnancies and births in more ways than we could ever imagine. They can bring empowerment, disappointment, shame, joy, bliss, and definitely have the potential to shape how we mother and who we are AFTER having a baby. Regardless of HOW your baby is born, it is important that you feel strong, capable, and in CONTROL during your birth. All too often women are led down a path in the hospital …frequently it starts with induction (postdates, protocol, gestational diabetes, etc) and commonly ends with a medicated birth either vaginally, restricted to being flat on her back with a nurse coaching the mother on how to push (val salva) or a cesarean section.
I challenge you to trust your body. Drown out the noise of what you’ve been told your whole life regarding your body’s ability to birth your baby without medical professionals “saving” you. You can do it! Be it God or whomever you believe to be our creator, they designed an intricate and beautiful system to create life and YOU are at its center. It’s not a flawed design. Surround yourself with people who believe in you and who will encourage you to trust your body.
Cassian’s mom fully trusted her body’s abilities to birth her baby AND surrendered to the element of the unknown that is inherent in birth. She knew I’d step in if her or her baby’s health was at risk but otherwise she was just going to have a baby at home, in a tub. From start to finish her labor lasted about 3.5 hours. We aren’t all so lucky to have such a swift and straightforward first birth but when the stars align things just work ✨