11/19/2025
Your body does not resist love because it is broken. It resists love because it was never taught what unconditional feels like
Read that again and let it land.
Most women were shaped in environments where love came with requirements. Be agreeable. Be predictable. Be impressive. Be useful. Be easy to handle. Your nervous system learned that belonging was something you earned through performance rather than something you were inherently worthy of simply by existing.
So the body adapted.
It learned to scan for danger even in safe relationships.
It learned to anticipate disappointment before connection.
It learned to work for affection, approval, and closeness.
It learned that rest was risky and receiving was unsafe.
And none of that is who you are.
It is who your nervous system had to become.
Unconditional love is not a mindset you talk yourself into. It is a felt experience that emerges when your system finally encounters safety without conditions. When your breath loosens. When your chest softens. When your body stops waiting for the moment it has to perform again.
This is where everything changes.
You stop confusing love with labor.
You stop abandoning yourself to stay accepted.
You stop shrinking to keep peace that was never yours to hold.
You begin to receive without bracing.
You begin to trust what rises in you.
You begin to feel what has always been your birthright.
If something inside you pulled forward while reading this that is your body asking for a different way of living. If you are ready to explore unconditional love as an embodied experience rather than a concept, you can book a session at axiomlux.org and begin the work your system has been waiting for.
