03/06/2026
Welcome to Episode 5 of Dead Inside and Board Certified.
Episode 5: “You Don’t Look Depressed”
“You don’t look depressed.”
“Everyone has anxiety — just calm down.”
“Borderline patients are just manipulative.”
These are some of the most common — and most harmful — phrases we hear in mental health.
In this episode, we break down the myths behind these statements and talk about what these conditions actually look like in real life. Depression doesn’t always look like someone crying in bed all day. Anxiety isn’t just everyday stress you can “think your way out of.” And borderline personality disorder is far more complex than the labels people often assign to it.
We discuss where these misconceptions come from, how social media and pop psychology have oversimplified serious psychiatric conditions, and what clinicians actually see behind the scenes in practice.
Because mental illness doesn’t always look the way people expect — and dismissing it with a quick phrase can keep people from getting the understanding and treatment they need.
SPOTIFY: https://open.spotify.com/episode/03OgQhlpDsrfc3lMjRNaNI?si=hDtFODtHRaqgyy0Rs5vOFQ
Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjr6XUZz8Ug5QzFPcIr1kIA
All other platforms: https://www.podbean.com/eas/pb-qdtav-1a635bc
- Dagny & Morgan
