02/04/2026
Wisdom Wednesday
Lately, I’ve been asking myself some honest questions:
What connects me to people?
Why are they connected to me?
And why do they want to be connected?
In this season, I’ve crossed paths with some genuinely good, whole-hearted people, and also some not-so-good, conniving, sneaky links. And truth be told, each group has taught me something valuable.
Those with good hearts taught me not to give so much of myself without reciprocity.
And the sneaky links? They taught me who I never want to be.
But here’s the wisdom God has shown me: I needed both, for a season.
Many people aren’t bold enough to be honest about how they feel. Often, their anger, envy, or passive behavior isn’t about you at all, it’s rooted in their own lack of self-worth.
So on this Wisdom Wednesday, here’s what God has been teaching me:
If they can’t be honest, you be honest, with yourself.
Stop engaging.
Stop inviting.
Stop trying to hang.
And let people be exactly who they are.
God started me on this path last year, and He continues to guide me as He moves me through purpose and into His will. He keeps reminding me: It may be hard, but it will be worth it.
Don’t try to rationalize it.
Let go. And don’t look back.
God has new relationships and partnerships waiting, ones He actually desires for you to experience.