06/10/2025
AI seems to be changing everything. When I think of the implications, it makes my chest tighten. I’m a content creator. I create online classes. I write books and newsletters. But now everyone has a super intelligent assistant that can replicate all of that! Because the threat is real, I’m stuck with the question: if everyone has the same powerful tools, what makes me, or any other human, relevant? Then I took a sauna. Here are my thoughts: Yes, AI helps me organize my thoughts, speed up workflows, and even helps me write better. But it won’t ever wake up in my skin. It won’t ever sit with a client and hold space for them. It won’t ever lead a retreat. It won’t raise my daughter or teach me patience when I’m frustrated. It won’t ever feel the discomfort of my development, or choose right over easy. AI won’t ever know (or feel) what it’s like to be human. And it certainly won’t ever do the work of becoming a better one! That will always be our job. No matter how smart AI gets, the real work of being human remains with us: learning to manage our emotions when we’re triggered. Showing up with compassion when we feel like lashing out. Reaching for higher perspectives. Letting go of old stories that keep us stuck. Growing up emotionally and spiritually. Practicing wisdom when there’s an impulse to react. This is what I write about in my upcoming book, The Healing Mindset: Mastering the Art of Skillful Awareness. I wrote it before AI was in the picture. Every word came from lived experience and late night insights. Just me and my editors real living breathing humans. My point is this: technology can assist us but it won’t replace the responsibility of growing into a better version of ourselves. That’s our work. It’s the work that binds us together as a community, and work that I believe is more relevant than ever. If you want to do that work with me, if you’re ready to grow in your relationships, wisdom, grit, or sense of purpose, reach out. Let’s talk. Let’s coach. Let’s retreat! The world has more than enough AI tools. What it needs now is more wise, compassionate, and grounded people to use them. Let’s do this!