
09/19/2025
Using PLAY and connection to push the limits a little bit and turn a situation from “I can’t I’m scared” to something feasible.
Here’s I’m working on normalizing the tone in my body (high/overuse in upper body to the point that it’s not always functional and mixed tone and responsivity in lower body to the point that it’s not always functional) and a young girl who has low tone, gravitational insecurity and overall anxiety. Sitting on the low pull up bar is scary for her and leaning forward in my w/c is scary for me.
Initially I grabbed her foot too hard and I immediately felt her dissociate (physically and emotionally). I used the post to help me ground, softened my grip to match her level of connection. Initially she was grabbing onto me for stability with both feet and then was able to settle a bit, bringing one foot down. It resulted in smiles and feeling accomplished all around!
Call it woo woo if you like but we affect each other. My biggest gain as a therapist (and parent) has been to hone in on what my body is telling me about their body.
I’m this course we discuss how to document these signals in an objective way for documentation. This is cool.