Moving Forward Safe Place

Moving Forward Safe Place Sometimes when you are ready to move forward a single look ahead makes you nervous. Come to a safe place to think and plan and then MOVE FORWARD.

It might be danger, it might just be complicated or it might remind you of old, unpleasant memories. Opened as a service of the Carbondale Church of Christ to the community, Moving Forward Safe Place Incorporated became an independent, non-profit corporation moving toward status as a recognized 501(c)(3) public benefit organization. We re-opened in September of 2025 under a new Board of Directors to expand our reach and sources of support.

Trauma Aware America posted an article that calls out the American Psychological Association (APA) for putting responsib...
11/22/2025

Trauma Aware America posted an article that calls out the American Psychological Association (APA) for putting responsibility on an individual to fix their own suffering with exercise, sleep, diet, and mindfulness without giving them a 'safe container' of relationships and environment.

They remind us that doing yoga won't cure personal failure or a chemical imbalance. The key: the IPNB says suffering is relational and healing is relational. It's not a personal flaw to be managed by little habits.

At Moving Forward we begin with relationships. Get some cold water or warm coffee and sit a minute. Listen for a little or talk when you are ready. We're here to care and to provide the relationships that can begin your healing journey.

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An American Psychiatric Association article lists behaviors like exercise, sleep, diet, mindfulness, and kindness as though these are the root causes of mental health. These actions do matter, but they’re insufficient if someone is in a dysregulated environment or lacking real relational support. They miss the link between these behaviors and the neurophysiological conditions that allow someone to access and benefit from them.

For example, a person in chronic survival mode can’t just "sleep better" or "practice mindfulness." Their biology is protecting them. Without a safe container--interpersonally and environmentally--those actions are inaccessible or even triggering.

The APA’s framing puts responsibility on the individual to fix their suffering with small habits, without acknowledging how social structures, trauma, poverty, racism, neglect, or disconnection destroy the very conditions that support mental health. It ignores the elephants in the room.

Then, when someone shows symptoms--like anxiety, shutdown, or despair--the same institution that told them to "do yoga" treats their suffering as a personal failure or chemical imbalance. Instead of seeing symptoms as a reflection of the person’s environment and the breakdown of relational safety, they pathologize the individual.

IPNB says suffering is relational and healing is relational. The APA still largely treats suffering as a personal flaw to be managed, rather than a signal of something missing in our collective ecosystems. That’s the disconnect. And that’s why people who are doing their best still end up blamed, shamed, and drugged, when they struggle.

And that's why the great increase of distrust in the mental illness industry and psychiatry in particular.

We had the privilege this week of helping one of our own into a detox to remove the substances that are draining life ou...
11/01/2025

We had the privilege this week of helping one of our own into a detox to remove the substances that are draining life out of our friend. Constant contact, friendly encouragement and a willingness to sit together as calls are made and plans are firmed up helped them move forward again. Yesterday the curve ball of questions about insurance benefits was solved in our office and adjustments were made in the plan. We don't just listen, we will walk with you toward the goal and celebrate when you arrive!

It's not a cause, it's an effect. Wow. We listen and care. When you are ready to talk. It's YOUR move.
10/11/2025

It's not a cause, it's an effect. Wow. We listen and care. When you are ready to talk. It's YOUR move.

What do you think of when you hear the word trauma? Trauma is a complex topic that can be difficult to wrap your head around. Watch this one-minute video for...

10/08/2025

She's not crazy, she was abused. She's not stupid, she was manipulated. She doesn't have an attitude, she's protecting herself. She's not bitter, she's speaking the truth. She's not hanging onto the past, she's been traumatized. She's not acting weird, she's lived a nightmare. She's not weak, she was trusting. She's not giving up, she's healing.

These words resonate deeply because they speak to the profound impact of trauma and abuse on individuals. When someone experiences trauma, it's common for others to misunderstand their behavior or reactions. They might be labeled as "crazy" or "difficult," but the truth is, they're often just trying to survive.

The trauma and abuse they've endured can leave lasting scars, making everyday situations feel overwhelming or triggering. Their "protective" behavior is a coping mechanism, a way to shield themselves from further harm. When they speak out or share their truth, it's not about being "bitter" but about finding the courage to confront their experiences.

Healing is a journey, and it's not about "giving up" but about taking small steps towards recovery. It's about acknowledging the trauma and working through it, rather than letting it define them. By recognizing the impact of trauma and abuse, we can offer support and understanding, rather than judgment. We can create a safe space for survivors to heal and rebuild, acknowledging their strength and resilience.

We proudly announce the addition of Peer Support as a free service available at Moving Forward Safe Place. Those who hav...
10/03/2025

We proudly announce the addition of Peer Support as a free service available at Moving Forward Safe Place. Those who have visited us will know this person's expertise and caring spirit. Having extensive experience of her own, Stephanie is able and willing to walk with you toward a better Well Being. Contact the Moving Forward office, 10am - 4:30pm Monday-Friday.

We are pleased to announce the addition of a new helper at Moving Forward. Mark Crain will lead our Re-engage classes on...
10/03/2025

We are pleased to announce the addition of a new helper at Moving Forward. Mark Crain will lead our Re-engage classes on Tuesday evening, offer Insight groups on Tuesday afternoons and be available at other times to listen, encourage and support your journey to move forward toward your goals.

Our "Pop-Up" Resale Shop will close Friday the 26th at 5:00pm. We hope to remodel and retool and reopen soon. We need th...
09/23/2025

Our "Pop-Up" Resale Shop will close Friday the 26th at 5:00pm. We hope to remodel and retool and reopen soon. We need the space empty to work! Come and get your deals THIS WEEK at 65% off! In Crystal City Shopping Center at 4233 Southwest Blvd.

Your support was awesome and the comments were helpful. Our time for this "Pop-up" Resale Shop is up soon. We will be cl...
09/17/2025

Your support was awesome and the comments were helpful. Our time for this "Pop-up" Resale Shop is up soon. We will be closing everything out at 50% off beginning Wednesday, September 17 through Friday September 26. We need to empty the borrowed space so that it can be cleaned, repainted and retooled. Stay tuned and THANKS AGAIN for your great support!

We appreciate everyone coming to our test of the "Pop-Up" Resale Shop next to Moving Forward Safe Place. The Board of Di...
09/14/2025

We appreciate everyone coming to our test of the "Pop-Up" Resale Shop next to Moving Forward Safe Place. The Board of Directors at Moving Forward will be meeting to decide whether to continue this shop this week and we would appreciate any input you have on the subject.

NEW Frigidaire "above the oven" microwave donated. Retails for $449 - give us $100 and it's yours! Moving Forward Resale...
09/10/2025

NEW Frigidaire "above the oven" microwave donated. Retails for $449 - give us $100 and it's yours! Moving Forward Resale Shop, 4233 Southwest Blvd. Tulsa

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4231 Southwest Boulevard
Tulsa, OK
74107

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Monday 10am - 4:30pm
Tuesday 10am - 4:30pm
Wednesday 10am - 4:30pm
Thursday 10am - 4:30pm
Friday 10am - 4:30pm

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