04/02/2024
When something happens to us that we can’t control, we often sit in that “shoulda, woulda, coulda energy”.
Whether it’s a car accident, an autoimmune condition, an injury that could have been prevented, or a life situation that feels unfair or unjust, marinating in the sorrow does not allow you to move forward. You can’t get to your goals this way. It’s simple, but it’s hard.
I’m not saying gloss over your feelings. You have to mourn what you wanted, like I mourned my dance career when my leg wouldn’t allow it and when my life has shifted in ways I could not control.
But you have to accept to move from the past to the present before you can get to the positive in the future. If you sit in the mental pain of the status you are in, it does not allow you anywhere but the past. This brain state does not help you recover.
So today I recommend you take the hardest step to moving forward. Accept what is, what happened, how it is right now. It is going to seem like the hardest thing you’ve ever had to do. But I promise, once you actually accept it, your mind will shift and new possibilities will open to you.
If you need an assist, I’m here to help you make it to your goals efficiently and build your resilient body and mind.
Let’s make your body resilient!