Fran Carona, PhD Services

Fran Carona, PhD Services Fran Carona, Ph.D. Services

Blog page: https://bytesfromababyboomer.com I have transitioned to an all virtual practice, seeing clients by Telehealth.

In addition, I enjoy speaking and writing. I am interested in the seasons of life and the transitions from one season to another. I will always be concerned with couples and marriage and a special interest in helping hurting women.

11/27/2025

The Hebrew word for “give thanks” in the Old Testament is yadah and it literally means “to acknowledge God in the middle of the mess.”

It doesn’t mean “feel grateful.”
It doesn’t mean “wait until things get better.”
It means “God, I see You present even in this.”

In Jewish worship, yadah wasn’t used for victory it was often used in seasons of fear, uncertainty, and waiting.

Thanksgiving wasn’t a celebration of how well life was going. It was an act of surrender when life didn’t make sense.

And that truth reframes everything we think about gratitude.

Here are several ways I’m practicing yādâ (thanksgiving)in my own life this week

1. Gratitude isn’t something you wait to feel; it’s something you choose to practice. 1 Thessalonians 5:18

2. Today’s pain makes more sense when you remember tomorrow’s promise. Romans 8:18

3. Complaining is often our heart’s way of saying, ‘God, I don’t trust what You’re doing right now.’ Philippians 2:14

4. If Jesus trusted His Father in the worst moment, I can trust Him in mine. 1 Peter 2:23

5. When I think I deserve better, gratitude disappears. But When I remember grace, it returns.” Luke 13:2–3

6. If you can’t lose Christ, then you can’t lose your reason to give thanks. Romans 8:35–39

Thanksgiving isn’t just about being grateful for what you can see. It’s learning to trust God with what you can’t see.

Yādâ is gratitude in uncertainty.
Gratitude in fear.
Gratitude in waiting.
Gratitude in confusion.
Gratitude in the “not yet.”
Gratitude in “even this”

It’s saying, “God, I thank You now because You already know what I don’t.”

So wherever you find yourself right now
if the diagnosis hasn’t come back,
if the finances don’t make sense,
if the relationship is unresolved,
if the future feels uncertain.
you can still yādâ.

Because biblical thankfulness isn’t built on what you have.It’s built on the God who holds what you don’t understand.

And you can trust Him “even in this”.

11/07/2025
07/17/2025

After a lifetime of blaming others, it is exceedingly difficult for us to finally acknowledge that the only person who has consistently been in all the scenes of that long-running soap opera we call our life is us, and, as a necessary corollary, that we bear some large responsibility for how the drama is turning out."

Source: Why Good People Do Bad Things

07/16/2025

From Lauren McQuisten, who decided to get sober at age 25: “Rock bottom doesn’t have to be the worst things can get. It’s the moment you don’t want it to get any worse.”

Just ran across this truth.
06/17/2025

Just ran across this truth.

04/18/2025

"Sooner or later we all sit down to a banquet of consequences."
Robert Louis Stevenson

Truth!

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