Happy Harber Doula Services

Happy Harber Doula Services I am here to help assist mothers in the birthing process to have a smooth and more memorable childbirth. I have 16 years of experience in assisting mothers

07/17/2025

Reconsidering your birth plan?

It's not too late!

If your due date is in August, September, or October, and you’ve been thinking more and more about what you really want for your birth - quiet, connection, confidence - we’re here.

Our limited time Grand Opening Special welcomes families who hoped for a community birth but started care elsewhere. You’ll receive $200 off for every standard prenatal visit you’ve already had - up to $1,600 off your birth package.

Whether you’re coming from a hospital practice, a clinic, or just feeling like something’s missing - we meet you where you are, and walk with you from here.

🕊️ Personalized, midwife-led care
🏡 Birth center and home birth options
📩 Message us or click the link in bio to learn more

Spots are limited - we believe in slow care, not crowded schedules.

Book a free consultation, online, at: https://balancebirthcenters.com/

06/14/2024

🚑 Let's Talk About What Really Happens During Emergency Birth Transfers 🚑

I recently heard about an EMT who expressed concerns about community birth, saying, "That's a long drive during an emergency with no treatment being provided!" The comment made me sad, and highlighted a common misconception about community births, so let's clear the air! 🤔

🚨 If you don't read anything else, read this:

When a licensed midwife calls an ambulance to a birth, it isn't because she doesn't know what to do next—it's because she knows it is the best way to continue providing expert care while on the move. You can't do that in a car! 🚗➡️🚑

Here's a little more about what midwives and emergency responders do during community birth transfers:

Expertise and Training: Who Knows What? 🎓

Midwives are the undisputed experts in managing childbirth emergencies in the field. We're comprehensively trained for all birth-related aspects, from prenatal care to the postpartum period. In any emergency, we know precisely what actions to take to ensure the best outcomes for both mother and baby.

EMTs and Paramedics are incredibly skilled at general emergency response but do not specialize in obstetrics. Their training is crucial for ensuring patients are transported to the hospital swiftly and safely, covering a wide array of general emergencies. Even physicians, while highly skilled in hospital settings, typically receive training focused on managing emergencies within hospital walls, not in community settings.

Equipment: What's in Our Kits? 🧰

Midwives come equipped for the specifics of birth. We've got everything needed for fetal monitoring, neonatal resuscitation, and even special medications for rare but critical situations. Think of us as a mobile mini-birth clinic.

Emergency Responders have the essential tools for general emergency care but aren't typically stocked with the specialized gear for newborn care or specific obstetric issues. They’re the champions of safe and rapid transport.

During the Transport: Who Does What? 🚑💨

Midwives stay hands-on with care during the ride. We monitor, adjust, and manage care continuously, ensuring that both mother and baby get the specialized attention they need. We continue to administer medications, manage hemorrhages, deliver the baby or placenta, and provide newborn support and resuscitation when needed.

Our EMTs and Paramedic partners focus on making the ride smooth and swift. They handle the driving, general medical monitoring, and make sure we can do our job without any bumps—literally and figuratively! They also call ahead and let the receiving providers know what is happening and what we might need when we get there. They assist with care in important ways, like starting IVs, when needed, administering medications they carry on the ambulance, and in the nearly unheard of situation that adult CPR would be needed, they would definitely lead the team. (Thank goodness, they are much more expert at that than we are!)

Why This Teamwork Matters 🤝

This partnership isn't just about filling roles; it's about blending our expertise to ensure the best possible outcomes. While midwives handle the specifics of birth care, our emergency responder teammates make sure we get to where we need to go safely and quickly.

Understanding these roles helps us appreciate how everyone works together seamlessly to look after our community's moms and babies. Let's keep supporting and respecting all our healthcare heroes, folks! 🩺🤝👶

(*AI generated art of a midwife and EMS team caring for a newborn, because usually no one is taking pictures at transports! It did a pretty good job, though.)

08/11/2022
So awesome to hear now to get big insurance companies on board!
01/16/2022

So awesome to hear now to get big insurance companies on board!

11/03/2021

I have not posted in quite some time. Thank you pandemic.

Most of all thank you to the awesome parents that took a chance on me and stuck it out. Congratulations on your beautiful bundle of joy. He is so perfect.

07/05/2020

Birth is sacred.

What a beautiful story!
05/23/2020

What a beautiful story!

This is a baby born in the caul (waterbag). During a pandemic. His mother chose a homebirth when the virus began making all the rules. I was the midwife but I missed it by about 15 minutes. She was in good hands with her mother and her sister and her husband on the phone with me. Her mother-in-law caught this photo of her mother and her sister catching her baby. I find this so completely amazing! Many a professional birth photographer could only hope to catch a moment this precious and sacred. I am sharing this with permission. ❤️

03/25/2020

No woman should have to birth alone, yet the right to have support during labor and birth by a partner or doula is being stripped away in hospitals due to COVID-19 precautions. As if facing COVID-19 and social distancing wasn’t enough to worry about, this is causing pregnant women incredible anxiety - and even despair - at a time when they should be able to prepare to welcome their baby.
While there is a lack of definitive evidence of increased infection risk from having a partner or doula present in labor or at birth, there is evidence of increased risk to the mother and baby from lack of adequate emotional, psychological, and physical support during labor, including longer and more painful labor, greater need for pain medication, interventions, and cesarean section. Further, lack of perinatal support is associated with greater risk of postpartum depression. These risks are further increased for people of color, who are already at higher risk of perinatal complications.

Today I am launching the campaign in order to raise awareness of a woman’s right to have support during her labor + birth experience and in turn, have hospitals recognize that labor and birth support is a proven, important factor in the health of mothers, babies, and thus, families.

Your help is really needed. If you can, I would love your support. Here's how:

1. Post a photo that depicts your birth journey (pregnant, in labor, birthing, you and your baby after birth, etc.) and explain in the caption why having support during your labor and delivery was so integral to your health.

2. Use the hashtag and tag me

3. If you’re feeling the birth activist spirit, contact the COO of your hospital, anyone you know in media, your mayor, your governor, your state senator, and ask your OB or midwife to advocate for you. Explain why birth support is so essential for your wellbeing, and the health of your baby and family.

And while it may feel like you’re alone right now, please know, you are not. Tomorrow, on my next Women’s Wellness Office Hours at 2 PM ET I’m going to share how I and other women are going to support you through this time.

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