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ANCHOR POSTING : Your tomorrow (WHAT YOU CAN STILL BE) can be different from your yesterday (WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN) - It's ...
27/10/2025

ANCHOR POSTING : Your tomorrow (WHAT YOU CAN STILL BE) can be different from your yesterday (WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN) - It's called PERSONAL ACCOUNTABILITY & CHOICE. Over the past 3 years I have been coaching and mentoring people in their professional and personal lives. Helping them reach inside themselves to finally pursue the prosperity they see from themselves.

I've run into the some of the following. Many of us, including myself, can see a little of this in ourselves at various seasons in our lives:

> Many say they are generally happy, but looking for more
> Some are stuck or complacent, not sure about the next steps
> Business owners, professionals, Moms & Dads who are going through the GenZ or Millennial "motions" trying to be satisfied with life, but know they are missing an aspect of life fulfillment they just can't seem to figure out what it is.
> Even Gen-Xers who have gotten complacent and are coasting, waiting for retirement or retired early, now lacking purpose & direction. We're built to create impact, not just golf.
> When you are young, your potential is infinite. You might do anything, you might be Einstein, you might be Dimaggio. THEN... you get to an AGE or "MOMENT" when WHAT YOU MIGHT BE, GIVES WAY TO WHAT YOU'VE BEEN. And WHAT YOU'VE BEEN has FALLEN SHORT of FULFILLING YOUR TRUE POTENTIAL....that’s a bad moment.

Your tomorrow (WHAT YOU CAN STILL BE) can be different from your yesterday (WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN) - It's called PERSONAL ACCOUNTABILITY & CHOICE.

I hope to be of service to you as I share the Personal Growth and Prosperity 3 Step System I use in coaching and mentoring.

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The Tides of Leadership. The ocean can remind us of the timing Leadership many times requires. It’s powerful, unpredicta...
13/10/2025

The Tides of Leadership. The ocean can remind us of the timing Leadership many times requires. It’s powerful, unpredictable, yet rhythmic. You can’t control the tides, but you can learn to swim w/ them. Great leaders don’t fight every current; they move w/ purpose, timing, & respect for the forces greater than themselves.

Ever heard this concept and story?? Jerry Ballard - "All miscommunications are the result of differing assumptions." If ...
28/09/2025

Ever heard this concept and story?? Jerry Ballard - "All miscommunications are the result of differing assumptions." If true, maybe clarity doesn’t start with better words, but with uncovering the hidden assumptions behind them. Reflect on this - has there ever been a situation in which you thought you were right beyond a shadow of a doubt? But turned out you were "wrongly" assuming? Take the more comical story of the traveling business woman.

Waiting for her flight, a woman bought a package of cookies that sat down by the gate. While reading her book she was eating her cookies. She heard some rustling next to her. A man sitting next to her grabbed a cookie from the package between them. The woman leaned over and grabbed another cookie, hoping the man would get the point. Her annoyance increased as the man still continued to grab another cookie. When there was one cookie left the woman was incensed when the man broke the cookie in half and pushed half towards the woman to "share" it with her. Still furious as what happened, the woman pulled her ticket out at the gate to check in - and next to her ticket she saw her unopened package of cookies.
--Paraphrased from Chapter 6 of the book "Everyone Communicates, Few Connect" by John C. Maxwell.

Here's another reflection for you. Do we sometimes lean too much into the hidden bias we all have - we tend to never see fault in ourselves first, but in others. In our relationships at home, at work, in our community involvement; church for example - from first impressions and over time, we place a "preset bias bubble" around our communications with people. The preset bias we apply in those communications stereotypes the underlying message, tone and intention of communications with that person. We then label that person and any time they communicate with us, they can never escape the label. Do you want people labeling you when you communicate with them? Your spouse? A best friend? Relatives? Colleagues at work?

Here's a strategy to disrupt yourself from applying a communication bias. Instead of just hearing the words, listen and attempt to understand the perspective and meaning. It's quite easy to ask, especially when the communication is more high stakes/important, "Am I understanding you right?, "

# I'M^POSSIBLE

What is your SELF IMAGE? Your SELF-TALK? Devaluing? Critical? Never good enough? Or Constructive? Positive? Faith-filled...
26/09/2025

What is your SELF IMAGE? Your SELF-TALK? Devaluing? Critical? Never good enough? Or Constructive? Positive? Faith-filled? I Can Do It? "It's IMPOSSIBLE to consistently behave in a manner inconsistent with how we see ourselves" - Z. Ziglar
FACT - only you decide your self image (and outcome). Own it.

'M^POSSIBLE

Q-still like to get more out of life that what you currently experience? Maybe not succeeding in the ways you desire to ...
26/09/2025

Q-still like to get more out of life that what you currently experience? Maybe not succeeding in the ways you desire to in life?

Here's the best next 2 steps - stop only thinking and self doubting. (1) MAKE THE DECISION and
(2) MAKE A PLAN. Both are free. DM for a free 3-step guide.

If you want to make a personal growth change, DM or comment "Growth Plan Guide" and I'll send you my free guide to help you get started.

'M^POSSIBLE

Were you taught that success is; lots of $$, influence, trophy house, wife, business & lifestyle that is enviable? If tr...
23/09/2025

Were you taught that success is; lots of $$, influence, trophy house, wife, business & lifestyle that is enviable? If true, I know plenty of miserable, lonely, empty, struggling successes living in despair. Success is; your life force creating significance & impact in the lives of others. 'M^POSSIBLE

09/09/2022

- Are you being accountable with your time? Did you SLEEP IN today? Does it matter? YES, it does. Will it matter tomorrow or the next day? On Saturday or Sunday? YES, it will.
STOP WASTING TIME you will NEVER GET BACK. Find your passion and ACT NOW!!

17/08/2022

Accountability to help and assist others is a human condition we all benefit from. With just this one, simple phrase you'll make a difference with our kids, our families, our relationships all around us.

I DARE YOU to ask it to your kids, coaches or athletes you interact with for 5 days straight. See what possibilities and energy it creates.

15/08/2022

What is the #1 Goal you wish you had better accountability to accomplish?

DO YOU HAVE “MOM EXPERTISE”? OR CAN RELATE to THE THANKLESS MOM JOB at times? If yes, BREAK the feeling. We everyday Mom...
12/12/2019

DO YOU HAVE “MOM EXPERTISE”? OR CAN RELATE to THE THANKLESS MOM JOB at times? If yes, BREAK the feeling. We everyday Moms are loving, patient, adaptable, resourceful and passionate in caring for our kids and family. WOW – what a CRUSHING set of qualifications and abilities. Love, family wellness and serving others is our every day life, so why not build a business on our “Mom expertise”? Being a Mom doesn’t have to be THANKLESS - don’t merely survive, you were made to THRIVE. We work together as a team of thriving Moms – PM, Like, Comment and we’ll contact you with personal attention to share more information.

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