22/04/2026
Resistance vs Defiance in Eating Disorder Recovery: What Parents Need to Know
If you are supporting a child in eating disorder recovery, this can feel so confusing.
Is this my child… or her/his ED?
Is it resistance… or defiance?
They can look very similar on the surface, but they are not the same. And how you respond matters more than you might think.
I wrote this to bring some clarity to something I see families struggle with often. You are not doing anything wrong. Sometimes the approach just needs to shift.
If you are in the middle of this, I hope this helps you feel a little more grounded and a little less alone. 💙
https://sarahleerecovery.com/resistance-vs-defiance-in-eating-disorder-recovery-what-parents-need-to-know/
Helping Make Recovery Possible!