Kokua Doula

Kokua Doula I am Julie Davis & a mama to 7 children.

I’ve had hospital & homebirths; medicated & unmedicated; my desire as a doula is to assist, support, & comfort expectant parents.

20/02/2022

Cesarean birth is hard. Recovery is sometimes awful.
Here's to all the moms who wanted a vaginal delivery, but made a difficult decision to change plans when they needed to.
We see you. Struggling to care for a baby after major abdominal surgery. Struggling with feeding when it hurts to move. Wondering if you'll ever not look pregnant, because your abdominal muscles were ripped apart. Wondering if the cramping will ever stop after someone like me literally held your uterus in my hands for what probably seemed like hours.
Maybe this wasn't the birth you hoped for, but never stop being proud of what you DID. You made a human. You sacrificed so very much to keep your baby healthy and safe. You chose the well-being of your child over everything else. That's what good moms do.
You're amazing, and I just want you to know that we see you. ❤️

It’s been a minute since I’ve posted anything, but this needed to be shared! Doc & Doula
08/06/2021

It’s been a minute since I’ve posted anything, but this needed to be shared! Doc & Doula

When you’re the doula & the grandmother it’s pretty awesome!! ☀️❤️
05/03/2021

When you’re the doula & the grandmother it’s pretty awesome!! ☀️❤️

Heehee
18/02/2021

Heehee

31/10/2020

A couple months ago, I was called to a birth during the night. I walked in to see this sweet mama, a friend of mine by now, laboring silently, curled up on the couch, while her midwife and husband scurried around to get things ready as quietly as possible.

Sometimes as a doula, I am squeezing hips, lifting bellies, holding mamas (and sometimes daddies) while they cry, and running around getting everything in order.

Then sometimes, there are moments like this, where mama is so internal, doing the hardest work she will ever do, and I barely dare even breathe so as not to disturb the peacefulness.

One of the hardest things for me to learn as a doula is that when things are going well, let them be, even if that just means watching for a bit. Sometimes parents are sleeping, sometimes the birthing person and partner need some time alone, together, and sometimes everyone simply needs quiet to process all the things.

Being a good doula means a lot of things. Recognizing when to just leave things alone is one of the most important lessons I have learned.

What is the quality that you believe a doula needs to have?

Photo cred: Julie Francom Doula Services

Wave of Light                                      Light a candle at 7:00 pm in your time zone to remember babies who we...
15/10/2020

Wave of Light
Light a candle at 7:00 pm in your time zone to remember babies who were lost through miscarriage or infant death.

Home birth YOUR way; not the Pinterest, mommy blog, or other social media way that shows you *the perfect way* or *must ...
12/10/2020

Home birth YOUR way; not the Pinterest, mommy blog, or other social media way that shows you *the perfect way* or *must haves*. The Birth Hive

When my baby is having a baby. 🥰 😭❤️
15/09/2020

When my baby is having a baby. 🥰 😭❤️

THIS!
31/08/2020

THIS!

So many myths to bust about consent!

"Consents"--the forms patients are expected to sign in their healthcare--are not the same as "informed consent"--the legal and ethical responsibility of the care provider to perform treatments only with the full knowledge and permission of the patient.

Informed consent is a DISCUSSION that brings the patient and provider closer around the patient's goals and health circumstances, and an agreement around how to proceed.

The FORM merely DOCUMENTS the DISCUSSION.

Signing a form that *may or may not* have involved a discussion around risks, benefits, and alternatives to a treatment, and where the patient may or may not have had the chance to ask any questions they have, is NOT adequate informed consent.

You can have true informed consent without a form... but you should not have a signed consent form without true informed consent.

Doulas and birth pros, I want you to be confident teaching your clients about their rights and standing beside them as they navigate their care. In two hours, you’ll change the way you practice: Legal and Human Rights in Childbirth for Birth Pros and Advocates @ bit.ly/birth-rights ❤️

16/08/2020

Original post, Lorena TheDoula A Natural Minded Mama

12/08/2020

Haven’t listened to this yet, but I’m betting there is some good good stuff for encouraging women of all ages!

COVID has changed A LOT of things, but not the rights you have in the way you birth.
05/08/2020

COVID has changed A LOT of things, but not the rights you have in the way you birth.

If you're pregnant and having a hospital birth COVID19 does not give providers permission to strip you of your rights.

1. You do NOT have to be tested. Period. You don't have to explain why, and you don't need any kind of excuse.

2. They CANNOT take your baby from you if you refuse to be tested.

3. They CANNOT take your baby if you test positive for COVID.
*Both the WHO & RCOG strongly recommend keeping mother and baby together, even if mom tests positively. You can show this resource to your provider if they say otherwise:

WHO- https://www.who.int/publications/i/item/clinical-management-of-severe-acute-respiratory-infection-when-novel-coronavirus-(ncov)-infection-is-suspected?fbclid=IwAR3F5ceFqT9yj-jd9_SlPa88EYF6pCHOP2vkW1LH99Rw1c6j6k2-QrJJwlk

RCOG- https://www.rcog.org.uk/en/guidelines-research-services/guidelines/coronavirus-pregnancy/covid-19-virus-infection-and-pregnancy/?fbclid=IwAR0Ncyovu935FEoZ11D8U46JioR3i5N_A0bR-bBb70rOxewybtccw5f3EyE

4. There is NO known medical reason to stop breastfeeding if you test positive. Current research shows no evidence of the illness being transmitted via breast milk. Breast milk does however have valuable antibodies to build your baby's immune system. If you planned to breastfeed, it is still recommended by the WHO.

WHO link about COVID & breast feeding- https://www.who.int/news-room/commentaries/detail/breastfeeding-and-covid-19

CDC link about COVID & breast feeding- https://www.cdc.gov/coronavirus/2019-ncov/need-extra-precautions/pregnancy-breastfeeding.html?CDC_AA_refVal=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.cdc.gov%2Fcoronavirus%2F2019-ncov%2Fprepare%2Fpregnancy-breastfeeding.html

5. They CANNOT make you wear a mask while laboring/pushing. You can voice that you are uncomfortable, and take it off.

YOU get to decide what you consent to, COVID does not change that.

—— https://evidencebasedbirth.com/covid19/

This has A TON of evidence based links and info. Evidence Based Birth is a very solid source of information.

—- https://www.who.int/publications/i/item/clinical-management-of-severe-acute-respiratory-infection-when-novel-coronavirus-(ncov)-infection-is-suspected?fbclid=IwAR3F5ceFqT9yj-jd9_SlPa88EYF6pCHOP2vkW1LH99Rw1c6j6k2-QrJJwlk

Yes! 🙌🏼
25/07/2020

Yes! 🙌🏼

Birth is new and important every single time.

💯
27/06/2020

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Ever felt the pressure to please everyone? ⁠
Ever felt like you're between a rock and a hard place? ⁠
Ever felt like it was impossible to advocate for your patient without pi***ng everyone else off? ⁠

LIKE + SAVE + SHARE

Celebrating the ones who strive to bring a strong foundation to families. Whether your family is your own or you make it...
21/06/2020

Celebrating the ones who strive to bring a strong foundation to families. Whether your family is your own or you make it your mission to build up, care for & protect others, you have made a difference! We love you!

Let America Be America AgainBY LANGSTON HUGHESLet America be America again.Let it be the dream it used to be.Let it be t...
11/06/2020

Let America Be America Again
BY LANGSTON HUGHES

Let America be America again.
Let it be the dream it used to be.
Let it be the pioneer on the plain
Seeking a home where he himself is free.

(America never was America to me.)

Let America be the dream the dreamers dreamed—
Let it be that great strong land of love
Where never kings connive nor tyrants scheme
That any man be crushed by one above.

(It never was America to me.)

O, let my land be a land where Liberty
Is crowned with no false patriotic wreath,
But opportunity is real, and life is free,
Equality is in the air we breathe.

(There's never been equality for me,
Nor freedom in this "homeland of the free.")

Say, who are you that mumbles in the dark?
And who are you that draws your veil across the stars?

I am the poor white, fooled and pushed apart,
I am the Negro bearing slavery's scars.
I am the red man driven from the land,
I am the immigrant clutching the hope I seek—
And finding only the same old stupid plan
Of dog eat dog, of mighty crush the weak.

I am the young man, full of strength and hope,
Tangled in that ancient endless chain
Of profit, power, gain, of grab the land!
Of grab the gold! Of grab the ways of satisfying need!
Of work the men! Of take the pay!
Of owning everything for one's own greed!

I am the farmer, bondsman to the soil.
I am the worker sold to the machine.
I am the Negro, servant to you all.
I am the people, humble, hungry, mean—
Hungry yet today despite the dream.
Beaten yet today—O, Pioneers!
I am the man who never got ahead,
The poorest worker bartered through the years.

Yet I'm the one who dreamt our basic dream
In the Old World while still a serf of kings,
Who dreamt a dream so strong, so brave, so true,
That even yet its mighty daring sings
In every brick and stone, in every furrow turned
That's made America the land it has become.
O, I'm the man who sailed those early seas
In search of what I meant to be my home—
For I'm the one who left dark Ireland's shore,
And Poland's plain, and England's grassy lea,
And torn from Black Africa's strand I came
To build a "homeland of the free."

The free?

Who said the free? Not me?
Surely not me? The millions on relief today?
The millions shot down when we strike?
The millions who have nothing for our pay?
For all the dreams we've dreamed
And all the songs we've sung
And all the hopes we've held
And all the flags we've hung,
The millions who have nothing for our pay—
Except the dream that's almost dead today.

O, let America be America again—
The land that never has been yet—
And yet must be—the land where every man is free.
The land that's mine—the poor man's, Indian's, Negro's, ME—
Who made America,
Whose sweat and blood, whose faith and pain,
Whose hand at the foundry, whose plow in the rain,
Must bring back our mighty dream again.

Sure, call me any ugly name you choose—
The steel of freedom does not stain.
From those who live like leeches on the people's lives,
We must take back our land again,
America!

O, yes,
I say it plain,
America never was America to me,
And yet I swear this oath—
America will be!

Out of the rack and ruin of our gangster death,
The r**e and rot of graft, and stealth, and lies,
We, the people, must redeem
The land, the mines, the plants, the rivers.
The mountains and the endless plain—
All, all the stretch of these great green states—
And make America again!

06/06/2020

Racism is killing Black and Brown birthing persons and infants. Period.
Justina Nazario-Johnson

To all the mamas who have invited me into your space as you welcomed your sweet one into this world! Thank you & may thi...
10/05/2020

To all the mamas who have invited me into your space as you welcomed your sweet one into this world!
Thank you & may this day be just as beautiful as you!

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