Confessions of an Alienated Father

05/08/2025

Facts and exactly why my children's rights weren't enforced when the Alienation began. They told me "I'd need a lawyer" threatened me with being arrested for public disorderly and Disturbing the Peace. When in fact it was Parental Kidnapping, in the middle of of a DSS Investigation that had nothing to do with me. But had everything to do with the Alienator..

05/08/2025

I apologize to my Children if seeing these posts may hurt them. I love you all very much! However this is the Painful Truth and it hurts me to live through it. This is my way of spreading awareness and dealing with the Pain of being an Alienated Parent. A Father that Loves his Children and Never gave up on them, despite what has transpired. I want to Heal and Rebuild our relationships. Today I seen a Therapist for the first time in I believe about 13 years. That's what Healing is. Talking about the past, the present and the future.. Why, so we can build a better tomorrow.

02/08/2025

31/07/2025

Putting myself back on the Path to Healing and Understanding... Mental Health Appointment scheduled...

30/07/2025

Someone told me I have to "Get Over" being Alienated from my Children... Said I'm creating unnecessary drama by posting about the Year's of my Children being kept from me and my Family! Told me that if they want to talk to me they will.....

But The Truth is.. No They Won't... BECAUSE They feel as if they can't, or that it won't make a difference. Or maybe they're afraid because they've been told I'm a Bad Father, or felt I abandoned them when that wasn't the case at all.. They felt I never loved them because Birthday cards were returned to me marked return to sender..

They were Manipulated to think they had a Father that didn't care!! Not all distant Parents are Bad Parents.. Sometimes it's the Ones they're living with that are the Real Monsters...

PARENTAL ALIENATION AWARENESS!!
People won't know if we, as Victims and Parents of the Victims (Children) don't speak Up!!

30/07/2025

All That matters in Life is the Footprints we leave behind. I never intended for My Children to become Victims.. I never wanted them to feel unwanted or like they didn't have a Father.. I didn't make those Choices!! But that's Sadly exactly what happened....

I do not own rights to the music ..

29/07/2025

So around July 15th, I found an account belonging to one of my alienated children. He is 17 and will be 18 in December. I go to try and message him and cant due to "User Privacy Settings" . I don't understand why I can't talk to him or why He won't talk to me.Other than the FACT that his Mother has Alienated him and his older Brother (never talks to me age 21 and Sister (who has now also blocked me age 23 in October.) Why is it so hard for my Adult Children to talk to me? I know why, they don't comprehend or understand they've been alienated for so long they don't even have memories of our relationships before the Alienation all began. Instead they are afraid it would seem or just Hate me because of the lies and manipulation due to the Alienation. The Damage is so severe, I doubt I'll ever know any of my children. But I hope that someday they'll know how much I really Cared, and tried so hard to be there. But The Alienator (Abuser) had her way and destroyed their trust and love for me replacing it with fear and unease. What can one do when all seems so lost... It's a Daily Struggle . Especially when it continues to persist rather than end.. It would seem I was born to suffer and my children suffer as well... To become Victims of a Broken System... A system that failed them when they were being Abused!!

15/04/2025

She just keeps blaming me.. Saying it's ALL MY Responsibility too stay in my son's life. All the while she refuses to Communicate schedules, or best times to call. There's no such thing as visitation unless I'm driving all the way to her home and spending time with our son there. Her Now Husband thinks it's "Okay to CLAIM My Son as his own and just eliminated me from his life. But the funny thing is every few Months she text's saying he's asking about me or wants to see me. Well YOU DID that NOT ME!! You made the choice to allow your marriage to interfere in the Relationship I had with OUR Child.. Now He is Suffering because of Your Choices !! STOP BLAMING ME!! YOU CHOOSE THIS!! He has Cerebral Palsy and you removed me from his life without even considering the damage and Pain you've caused!! That's how You Controlled this situation?? By Hurting Him?? Doesn't seem fair to him, who cares about Me?? It's his feelings and Heart you Broke..

06/03/2025

I thought my struggle with Alienation would end when my kids turned of age. Turns out the damage done is irreversible.. I pray and pray.. But the cycle never ends...