13/07/2020
Hello!
What are you doing daily to take care of yourself? Sometimes the last person we consider is ourself. We prioritize everyone and everything else and we put ourselves at the bottom of the list. But I want you to realize if you don’t take care of yourself first, then eventually you have nothing left to give! You’re depleted, your health is at risk, you’re emotionally and mentally tapped out, and many areas in your life can become unmanageable.
I work hard to prioritize myself in my life so that I have the bandwidth to give back. When I feel good about me then I am on top of my game! Life is good!! I can give back to others and feel joy and contentment.
Here are a few areas and ways that work for me. I encourage my clients to find their own passions and pursuits that nurture their souls!
MENTALLY: At least 5 days a week a listen to books and podcasts that enrich my mind and keep me feeling strong and purposeful. What works for me is to do this when I workout. It is my commitment to myself. And I kill two birds with one stone, which leads to the next area...
PHYSICALLY: I exercise at least 5 days a week. My favorite things currently are weights and running. They help me feel strong and ready to conquer my day. I also eat a healthy diet that is Liver friendly. This allows me to splurge every now and then without freaking out or being rigid or restrictive. I also try and keep to a regular sleep routine. If I don’t get 8 hours a night I don’t feel near as energized or on top of my game. I also get regular checkups by all of my doctors. Being preventative is so important to our health.
SPIRITUALLY: Prayer and meditation help me focus on quietness and what is important in life. Contemplation, silence, spending time in nature, giving back, compassion, and being non-judgmental are a few of the activities that help my own self-care.
SEXUALLY: God made us to be s*xual beings and if we do not take care of ourselves then our s*x lives can suffer. S*x is more than just the act, it is the way we feel about ourselves. Taking care of our bodies and minds so that we are happy with ourselves, so that we feel strong, so that we feel energized, have stamina, and feel s*xy are key to a great s*x life. Being purposeful about our desires, curiosity and attraction towards our partners increases our passion. And if we do not have a partner currently, just feeling good about ourselves, feeling s*xy, can keep a feeling of aliveness and energy with us daily. Exercise, healthy eating, sleep, good grooming all contribute to a healthy s*xual glow and to feeling alive!
FINANCIALLY: I live within my means. I maintain a budget. I stay out of debt. I set yearly goals. I keep a balanced work/play life.
SOCIALLY: When I feel good about me, I want to spend time with family and friends. If I don’t, I tend to isolate. My family and friends are my most precious jewels, they make me happy, fulfilled, joyful, feel cared about, and feel special.
CREATIVELY: Creativity brings passion into my life. We all need to find a passion that nourishes and excites us. For me, I have a few. I started painting acrylic on canvas in 2016 when I became an empty nester. It is my happy place. Working out is another passion of mine. I crave it and love the way it makes me feel. My entire day is better when I workout. I also love gardening and cooking (though with my kids grown and gone I don’t cook as much!). Decorating also gives me pleasure. Find something that you feel passionate about and give yourself permission to cultivate it!