04/25/2025
The Ones Who Showed Up
By: Sophie Fuller
We donât get here alone. None of us. Behind every competent medic is someone who stayed after a shift to walk them through the hard calls, the messy feelings, the why-didnât-I-do-it-different moments. Not a PowerPoint. Not a protocol update. A person.
Mentorship in EMS doesnât wear a name tag or introduce itself formally. It looks like a glance across the bench seat that says, Youâve got this. It sounds like, You did everything right, even when the outcome says otherwise. Itâs someone handing you a Gatorade instead of a lecture after your first rough code. Itâs the partner who lets you cry on the ride back and still treats you like a badass afterward.
In this job, growth doesnât come from climbing a ladderâit comes from being built. Brick by brick, mistake by mistake, call by call. And the builders? Theyâre the ones who remember what it felt like to be new. Who donât gatekeep the lessons they learned the hard way. Who teach not because itâs in their job description, but because someone once did it for them.
The best mentors donât demand your respectâthey earn it, in the quiet way they lead, in how they treat the most difficult patients, in how they never make you feel small for asking questions. They correct without humiliating. They push without punishing. They protect youânot from the work, but from the self-doubt that comes with it.
You donât always get to choose your mentor in EMS. Sometimes itâs the salty old medic you were warned about. Sometimes itâs the EMT with fewer certs but twice the heart. Sometimes itâs someone youâll never see againâbut in one call, they change how youâll do the job forever.
And when itâs your turn, you pay it forward. Because you remember what it felt like to not know. And you remember who showed up anyway.
Iâd be lying if I said I wasnât in tears while writing thisâ because it matters, it changed me, it built me.