04/08/2026
Barbara Lee (Nelson) Rumford-Millet
December 15, 1936 - April 3, 2026
Barbara Lee (Nelson) Rumford-Millet, 89, of Valparaiso, IN, passed away peacefully on April 3, 2026, at Northwest Health Hospital in Chesterton, IN.
Despite being born during the Depression, it never stopped Barb from living life to its fullest with optimism and determination. Barb was born December 15, 1936, in Chicago, to the late Leroy and Anne (Anderson) Nelson. She grew up in Chicago and graduated from Toleston High School in Gary, where she met and married her high school sweetheart, Eugene Rumford, who preceded her in death in 1987.
Barb was the heart and soul of the family. She raised and dedicated her life to her four children. Those who knew Barb would remember her to be a joyful, loving, and dedicated wife, mother, grandmother, and friend. As a convert to Catholicism, she was an active member of St. Paul Parish since 1971 and accepted everyone and loved them unconditionally. Her upbeat personality made everyone feel welcome.
Eager to learn new skills, Barb embraced a variety of roles. She was a gifted saleswoman and entrepreneur, and she found success in the home party sales world and later became the owner of the Tanning Hut in the early 1980s.
Always ready for an adventure, she joined the team at Costas Bakery, where she worked for 25 years and knew her customers by name. "Barb at the Bakery" was an amazing baker herself and enjoyed trying out new recipes. No picnic, wedding, or baby shower were complete without the famous giant tri-layer brandy snifter mold. She loved baking with her grandkids. Barb had style. It was an extension of her spirit, reflected in her jewelry, her clothing, and the spaces she transformed.
After the passing of her husband, Gene, who she was married to for 30 years, she was fortunate to marry another good man, Nick Millet, at age 60. After 20 years of marriage, he also preceded her in death. Nick took her on many adventures to Florida, where they lived part-time.
Dedicated to serving others, her compassion was felt by anyone who interacted with her. She was in her element as the community social chairman; she took charge and helped friends gather to build a beautiful community. Barb was an active member of Psi Iota Xi.
She is survived by her brother, Charles (Chuck) Nelson; her loving children, Rick (Lynne) Rumford, Robin (Gary) Krueger, Rodney (Terry) Rumford, and Regina Rumford; her grandchildren, Bethany (Stephen) Dwyer, David Rumford, Kyle (Nick) Macri, Jack Krueger, and Krysten Walls; and great-grandchildren, Robert, Charlotte, and Caroline Dwyer and Clara Macri. She was preceded in death by her brother, Leroy Nelson, and sister, Florance Bee.
She is also survived by Nick's daughters, Debbie (Terry) Borolov and Tammy Armstrong; grandchildren, Terry Borolov, Crystal (Justin) Frever, Ashley and Austin Armstrong; great-grandchildren, Terry Xavier and Brody Borolov, Bailey and Brooklyn Frever, Jackson and Lovie Armstrong; and great-great-grandchildren, Luciel and Jarad Borolov.
On Wednesday, April 8, a visitation for Barb will be held from 3 to 5 p.m. at D***s Funeral Home, 2305 N. Campbell, Valparaiso, IN, 46383. On Thursday, April 9, a funeral Mass of Christian Burial will occur at 10 a.m. at St. Paul Catholic Church, 1855 W. Harrison Blvd., Valparaiso, IN, 46383. Burial and reception immediately following Mass at St. Paul.
In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Best Buddies Texas in memory of Barbara Rumford at www.bestbuddies.org/texas/donate/ in support of her grandson, Jack Krueger, who is a global ambassador for this organization that supports individuals with intellectual disabilities.
Arrangements made by D***s Funeral Home (219) 462-3125.