11/17/2020
There once was a time when I set goals from a dirty place, a place of not being enough. This ultimately caused me to feel shame and weaken my trust muscle. Now, when I set goals, I really check in with myself and make sure it’s coming from a clean place. Here are some goal setting nuggets since 2021 is just around the corner and goal setting season is on the horizon.
🐵 Goal setting is not about the result that you get, it’s about the person you become along the way. Unicorns don’t come from the sky and shower you with happiness and self-worth when you reach your goal. Happiness isn’t over there, happiness is available to you right now. You are already worthy, AND you can intentionally choose to set a goal and transform.
🐵When goal setting comes from a dirty place it comes from a place of lack, feeling like you have something to prove or approval to gain. Or, thinking that once you reach your goal you will finally be happy, and everything will magically be better.
🦁It is ok to want more, to want something different, to want to grow, expand and transform. But how do you know if your goal setting is coming from a clean place?
Clean goal setting:
🦄It won’t feel rushed
🦄 Your WHY makes you feel good not bad, it’s coming from a place of self-love. Not a place of lack or not enough-ness
🦄If you fail, you fail forward and keep moving. You learn from your mistakes and adjust, instead of making the mistakes mean something about you.
🦄You are excited about adding in new healthy habits, facing fears, expanding, and getting outside of your comfort zone.
🦄You set the goal because you know that through the process of achieving it you will become a higher version of yourself along the journey. You understand that your worth does not depend on the accomplishment of the goal. You are simply choosing to accomplish the goal because you want to expand in some way that feeds your souls purpose.
Let's be gentle on ourselves in 2021 and choose clean goals 💕