This Abled Life

This Abled Life My name is Chris and I have MS. It doesn’t stop me from having a fulfilling life. This is my story.

08/28/2024

My post about the cops getting called on me brought about a few questions, so here’s the full story. I put in a delivery order for beer, and added some white claw for our adult daughter and a bottle Maker’s (just to make the delivery fee worth it). The driver drove by me THREE times as I was trying to wave him down (drivers have trouble finding our apartment). He looked at me all three times, but didn’t stop, probably because it didn’t occur to him that the guy in a wheelchair was capable of ordering alcohol (it happens often).

When I finally got him to stop, he rolled down his window and asked, “can I help you?” I said yeah, you can give me my order. He looked at his phone, pressed the “cancel” button, and said, “no, I canceled the order because I couldn’t find your apartment and you didn’t answer your phone.”

No one called me. I told him he didn’t call me, that he just sped through the parking lot for a few minutes, ignoring me as I tried to wave him down, etc cetera. I’m sure I was a jerk, because I was pi**ed. He said, “your disability obviously affects your brain, because you’re a f-Ing idiot.”

Yeah, I decided right then and there that he was going to have a very terrible evening. It’s illegal to detain someone against their will. It’s not illegal to suggest that they might run over your foot if they drive away. He wasn’t in a parking space, he was in the middle of the parking lot and could have left any time. I guess he must have a disability that affects his brain, because he didn’t seem to understand that.

He called the cops, said I was illegally detaining him, said I rammed his car with my scooter, so on and so forth. The cop got there, saw the situation for what it was pretty quickly, and told him to leave.

My favorite part was when he went to show the cop the damage I did to his car and it clearly hadn’t been touched.

People can do almost anything to me, and I’ll be chill. If you steal from me, mess with my family, or discriminate against/mock me based on my disability status, I change. All bets are off.

This old disabled guy just fished his wife’s wedding ring out of a 39 inch deep void under the bathroom shelving through...
10/18/2022

This old disabled guy just fished his wife’s wedding ring out of a 39 inch deep void under the bathroom shelving through a quarter inch wide gap with a wire coat hanger, a little electrical tape, and a paper clip.

09/18/2022

I went to the Brewing Bridges beer fest yesterday. It was amazing, as always, and there was so much great beer and so many great friends, I wouldn’t have missed it for anything.

Still, something felt “off” today. It’s kind of a common feeling when you have MS. You just know when something isn’t right.

I can’t really even describe what I felt, but we all went to Back Alley afterwards, and I just couldn’t shake that feeling.

The problem, though, is that I didn’t ask for help. I was in a place full of old friends and new friends, and I didn’t say anything to any of them.

What did I do? I left without a word and rode my power chair 3.5 miles home, in rainy, 60 degree weather, at 11pm.

I even got stuck, by Peace Health on Mill Plain, in some gravel in a construction zone (thanks, Vancouver, for closing both sides of the sidewalk within a block), but I didn’t seek help. I actually got up out of the chair and forced it out of the rut, damn near falling into the street while I was at it.

I made it home. Some Thai place definitely has me peeing on video by their dumpster.

So why, do you ask, am I posting this? I was in a place full of friends, any of whom would have helped me get home without a second thought. Yet I didn’t ask, or even say anything, to any of them.

What I did was dangerous. It was unwise. And I did it out of pride. I refused to let anyone know I wasn’t okay.

This is common amongst people who have chronic illnesses, and it’s fu***ng stupid.

Don’t be like me. If you are in need, reach out. You will likely find more help than you can imagine.

With all that said, I think I was a badass last night. Men are dumb. But I’m still a badass.

09/04/2022

I’m Chris and I have MS. I don’t let it stop me from having an active, fulfilling life. I hope to inspire others, both abled and disabled. This page is my story of overcoming.

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