07/17/2025
Wow! Great incite! Looks like i have some work to do! I have the last three pretty well under control, but the rest of them need improvement. See how well you do 💜☺️ (this was copied)
Here are some signs that you have an ego problem:
You are a poor listener. You are slow to hear, and quick to speak.
You get defensive when someone gives you feedback. This can take the form of over rationalising a situation. The tendency is to “forget” evidence and information which does not support your thinking and to “remember” evidence and information which does.
You want others to do things for you, but you hesitate to do things for others.
You do not try to understand or empathize with people who disagree with you. When you argue, your goal isn’t to understand and connect with people. Your goal is to prove you are right.
You mistakenly think that your opinion is the same as it being true.
When in a disagreement with another person you like to have the last say.
You would rather hear things you agree with, rather than hear things that challenge you.
Your first instinct is to criticize; your last instinct is to encourage.
You see life through a narrow lens, and everything fits in it. You are blind to things outside this lens.
