04/02/2026
Couples, understanding this concept is the key!
I see this often in couples therapy ⬇️
For one person, talking is how they repair.
For the other, taking space is how they regulate.
But there needs to be a balance. Too much talking turns into dwelling without moving forward. Too much space turns into avoidance without addressing the issue.
When you disagree, what helps you to have a productive conversation?