New Life Professional Counseling-Victoria TX

01/09/2026

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01/09/2026

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Distance does not appear out of nowhere, it is taught over time.

You do not get to starve a child of love for decades and then demand closeness when they grow up. Love withheld leaves marks. Silence becomes language. Absence becomes normal. A child learns early what not to expect, and that lesson does not disappear with age.

You raised distance through neglect, emotional absence, and unmet needs. You taught them to self soothe, to stay quiet, to stop reaching. You taught them not to rely on you. That was not rebellion. That was survival.

Now, as an adult, they are not cold. They are conditioned. They are protecting themselves the way they always had to. You cannot demand intimacy from someone you never made feel safe enough to need you.

This is not punishment. It is consequence. You raised distance. Now sit with it. Healing may still be possible, but entitlement to closeness is not. Love must be given to be returned.

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It’s called Boundaries! Love them from afar.

Forgiveness is biblical—letting someone keep abusing you isn’t.
Somewhere along the way,

“Be like Jesus” got twisted into
“Let people do whatever they want to you.”

-Jesus taught forgiveness.
-Jesus also walked away from some places.
-Jesus also set clear lines.

You can:

-Forgive someone
-Pray for them
-Wish them well
…and still decide:

“I’m not staying in this conversation.”
“I won’t tolerate that behaviour.”
“I love you, but I won’t expose myself to this again.”

Grace doesn’t mean you have to be a punching bag.
Sometimes the most loving thing you can do
is forgive fully and step back wisely. 🕊️

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