Burckhalter-Highsmith Funeral & Cremation Services

11/22/2025

To all the caregivers out there — we see you and we appreciate you.

Being a caregiver is never easy. During the holidays, it can feel especially heavy, full of extra expectations, shifting routines, and the quiet longing for rest.

At Highsmith Funeral Home, we want to honor the dedication, the love, and the countless small sacrifices you make each day. If you’re navigating the holidays while caring for someone else, you don’t have to carry it all alone.

One helpful resource is this article from the National Council on Aging, “6 Ways to Avoid Holiday Caregiver Stress and Enjoy the Season.” It offers encouragement and expert-backed ideas to help you through this season. 👉 https://www.ncoa.org/article/6-ways-to-avoid-holiday-caregiver-stress-and-enjoy-the-season/

We hope you find a moment of rest, a bit of breathing room, and unexpected joy this season. Thank you for the care you give — we’re here for you.

— With sincere gratitude, your team at Highsmith Funeral Home 💙

11/20/2025

We make it simple to show your support. Our home page has a link to an excellent local florist. Clicking on the link will take you to their website, where you can order your tribute flowers online.

11/18/2025

Attend our grief counseling meeting tonight. Healing is better when we do it together.

We want to help you. Sharing your story with others has a powerful impact. Please join our Grief Support Group this evening.

Come share your experience with others as we lift each other up!

We will be meeting on the First and Third Tuesday of every month at 7pm

Location: Burckhalter-Highsmith Funeral Home, the only locally owned and operated funeral home in Vinita.

We want to help you. Sharing your story with others has a powerful impact. Please join our Grief Support Group this evening.

Please take steps to get help; you are not alone.

We offer this service because we care about you and understand your difficult journey to healing.

For more information, give us a call at 918-256-6444

11/15/2025

Planning ahead is one of the kindest gifts you can leave for your family. When you take time now to put your wishes in place, you give your loved ones the comfort of knowing everything is taken care of—and you give yourself the peace of mind you deserve.

As the only locally owned funeral home in Vinita, we understand this community and the people who call it home. Our staff brings decades of experience to gently guide you through each step of the pre-planning process, offering thoughtful options that reflect your values and wishes.

By making these decisions in advance, you lift a tremendous burden from your family during a time when they will need comfort the most.

If you’d like to learn more about how pre-planning can bring clarity and peace, we’re here to help.
Give us a call or visit our website to learn more about our pre-planning services.

918-256-6444
http://highsmithfh.com

11/13/2025

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11/11/2025

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11/11/2025

“The highest obligation and privilege of citizenship is that of bearing arms for one’s country.” – George S. Patton Jr. Thank you to our veterans for their service. Without them, we would not have our freedom. Their service model is an inspiration to us all.

11/09/2025

These are good words to live by.

Be quick to listen,

slow to speak,

and slow to anger.
James 1:19

11/08/2025

Preplanning a funeral is a thoughtful decision that brings comfort to both the individual and their loved ones. Ensuring that final wishes and preferences are respected relieves the burden of decision-making and allows family members to focus on mourning and celebrating their loved one's life.

Call us to set up an appointment. You will be glad you did! 918-244-0952

11/06/2025

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11/06/2025

Why Have a Funeral?

At Highsmith Funeral Home, we understand that saying goodbye is never easy. A funeral is more than just a tradition—it’s a moment to honor a life well-lived and to share in the comfort of community and memories.

✨ Celebration of Life: A funeral is a chance to reflect on the beautiful moments shared, to celebrate achievements, and to cherish a legacy that lives on in the hearts of loved ones.

✨ Emotional Healing: Gathering with friends and family brings comfort. It allows for shared memories, laughter, and even tears, helping the healing process begin.

✨ A Personal Goodbye: Every service is unique and personal. It’s a meaningful way to say goodbye in a way that reflects the life of the individual and the values that matter most to them.

Let us help you create a heartfelt service that honors your loved one and brings peace to those who gather in their memory. 🌿 Phone us at (918) 256-6444

11/04/2025

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