Wood Holistic Counseling Gail Wood MS, LMHC

01/12/2026

It's a gorgeous January day in Iowa! Get outside and soak in that sunshine! Studies show that 35 - 40% of the population of the United States has a Vitamin D deficiency, particularly in the Midwest during winter because we have less sunlight. Vitamin D deficiency significantly impacts mental health, including the risk of developing anxiety and depression, as well as the severity of those disorders. Vitamin D plays a role in serotonin production and brain function. Vitamin D also affects memory and brain processing, which impacts conditions like ADHD and Schizophrenia.

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01/08/2026

Nutrition is SO important to your mental health. Go check out "The State of Our Health" below.

The Dietary Guidelines for Americans reset U.S. nutrition policy by restoring science, common sense, and real food as the foundation of national health.

01/07/2026

From Positive Psychology:

Want your New Year's resolutions to actually succeed this year? You need to set more than just goals—you need intentions, too.

Even the best goals fail without clear plans for how you'll follow through. Goals tell you what to achieve. Intentions tell you how you'll show up to make it happen.

Goals are future outcomes, like "exercise three times a week." Intentions are present-tense commitments: "When I wake up on weekdays, I will move my body for 20 minutes, whether I feel like it or not."

Three ways to set effective intentions this week:

In your work
Instead of "finish the project by Friday," try: "When I sit down each morning, I will work on one high-impact task for 90 minutes before checking email."

In your relationships
Rather than "be more present," try: "When we eat dinner together, I will leave my phone in another room and ask one genuine question about their day."

For personal growth
Don't just aim to "be less stressed." Try: "When I notice tension building, I will pause, take three breaths, and ask myself what I need right now."

The key is making intentions specific and situation-linked: "When X happens, I will do Y." Ground them in your values, not your mood. This turns commitment into automatic behavior, helps you avoid procrastination, and closes the gap between wanting and doing.

Reflection question:
Which goal have you been struggling with? What specific "if-then" intention could help you follow through?

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01/07/2026

Vinton has been without Internet since noon yesterday (1/6/2026). Clients, please text me if needed. Thanks!

12/13/2025

I follow Dr. Nicole LePera, The Holistic Psychologist, and I recommend you do, too, if you are on a journey of self-care and mental wellness. I receive emails from her such as this:

A message from your future self:
You don’t need to prove yourself. Notice how often you compare yourself to someone else, or think you have to explain why you’re doing what you’re doing. Some things are just for you to know. Your private world is sacred. Share it only with people who have proven they don’t judge or invalidate you. Honor your own boundaries, and let your choices be the explanation.

Your private world is sacred. When you think about it like that, your choices are different. Your boundaries are different. Surround yourself with people who cheer you on instead of hold you back.

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12/13/2025

Christmas has come to Wood Holistic Counseling. No matter how you celebrate the season, I wish you health and happiness as we ring in a new year!

10/29/2025

This is the silly picture I drew to teach my clients about Fear and Grief's bodyguard: Anger. When we are experiencing fear and grief, we feel small and vulnerable. When we're angry, we feel big and powerful. People would much rather feel the latter than the former, which is why anger is a go-to emotion for most people. To understand and manage your anger, ask yourself what you fear, or what you're grieving. When you understand the why, you can better process the emotion.
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10/28/2025

How to Process Anger
1. Learn the early warning signs of anger, which are typically physical: a knot in your stomach; shallow breathing; facial flushing or a sensation of heat in your face, neck or chest; clenched fists or your shoulders moving up towards your ears; amplified speaking.
2. As soon as you recognize you're getting angry, acknowledge it out loud or mentally: "I need a moment." Naming what's happening validates your experience and slows the surge of emotions: name it to tame it.
3. Create distance from whatever triggered your anger: leave the room, stop the conversation or end work on the task with which you're involved.
4. Continue to slow your angry reaction by going for a walk; drink cold water or splash cold water on your face; engage in progressive muscle relaxation, in which you tighten and release your muscles from your feet up to your face; text or call a friend for support; draw, doodle or journal; box breathing: inhale for 4 counts, hold for four counts, exhale for four counts.
5. Anger is the bodyguard for fear and grief, and fear triggers anxiety. If your thoughts begin with, "What if?" that's a clear sign it's an anxious thought. If you're asking, "What if I fail?", ask yourself, "What if I don't?" Switch your self-talk from negative to positive.
6. Engage in self-care: plenty of sleep, regular exercise and stretching, balanced diet, journaling, mindfulness activities, spending time in nature, creating art, spiritual practices and prayer, taking medications consistently, practicing good hygiene, less screen time, reading, coloring, breathing techniques, setting boundaries and saying, "No," and mental health therapy.

Take care of your anger and yourself!!!

*Information condensed from ADDitude and Psychology Today articles.

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09/24/2025

Reframe your negative thoughts about this ADHD reality (for some). ADHD loves to hijack our dopamine reward pathways, so the idea = dopamine! Shopping and checking out = dopamine! The first successful project = dopamine! Trading your unused hobbies on Marketplace = dopamine, and a healthier way to get it. Be proud you were doing something to fill your self-care cup, but set boundaries with yourself to avoid more future impulse purchases.

09/08/2025

08/27/2025

I am currently working with an adult client who has Reactive Attachment Disorder, and our focus is healing the wounded inner child. The best aspect of kids' personalities is their ability to live in the moment, "enjoying the slightest majesty in life." I have been attuned to my own inner child lately, and these photos are slight majesties I've noticed over the past week or so. Be in wonder of the world!

05/14/2025

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